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August 7th, 2012, 06:10 AM
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Are you done having kids after this one or is this just the beginning? I thought I always wanted 3 but lately dealing with my 2 year old has been nothing short of trying and I'm not sure what I want to do. I'll probably give it 2 years before making a final decision. Probably will depend on what this baby is like!
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August 7th, 2012, 06:23 AM
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I am done with this one, #3. We are getting too old and they are already spread apart so much in years. The older I get, the more patient I get, so try and give it those 2 years before making your final call
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August 7th, 2012, 06:27 AM
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we have always said 3 or 4..... at the moment we are really unsure... within the next year we will decide I think.. need to see how things are financially.
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August 7th, 2012, 06:42 AM
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Not sure - It will really depend on how this baby is. DH would like 5, Im thinking maybe 3. But I'm getting up there in years...so who knows.
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August 7th, 2012, 06:42 AM
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I wanted 3-4 but being on this type of bed rest I think just one more is all I can handle. And I would feel terrible for my children not having a mommy and being in bed all the time for 5 months.
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August 7th, 2012, 06:47 AM
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This is it!! I will be getting my tubes tied or Essure and DH will be getting a vasectomy to double protect us. 4 is our limit!!
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August 7th, 2012, 06:58 AM
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I am about 90% sure we are done after this one. I am happy with one of each and I think we will feel complete with 2 kids. If for some reason this baby came out a boy, we would for sure not be done because having a daughter is important to me (not that I would love a son any less). But as it is, we are most likely done. I am not ready to make that permanent though.
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August 7th, 2012, 06:58 AM
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I always just wanted three, but since things didn't work out as planned, I am open to having one more after Annalise. I really looked forward to sharing the joy with someone, so if I end up meeting someone & we are married I would consider it - even knowing I'd be on bedrest. The way things are looking, I think this might be it for me though, but I won't plan on any long term decisions just yet.
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August 7th, 2012, 07:12 AM
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We are 100% done after this baby. DH will be getting a vasectomy.
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August 7th, 2012, 07:15 AM
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If this one is a girl then I am completely done. If it is a boy then I will decided in a year or so. Depends on how delivery goes,if it goes like last time then I will be done, if it goes a lot smoother then will consider another one if this is a boy.
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August 7th, 2012, 07:16 AM
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Yes! This is #4 and we'll be even 2 boys, 2 girls. We always said 2 or 3 well we decided for 4. Any more and we'll need a bigger house (just bought last year) and a bigger passenger van (just bought a minivan a few months back) plus the thought of 5 teens scare me! We wanted our kids close in age.
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August 7th, 2012, 07:16 AM
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I am done after this one. Probably getting my tubes tied during my c-section. 2 is the perfect number for us!
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August 7th, 2012, 07:25 AM
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I am SO done!
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August 7th, 2012, 07:38 AM
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If I end up finding the right guy and get married then I will defiantly be having another. But until that happens, I'm done.
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August 7th, 2012, 07:41 AM
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I'm pretty sure we are done. It doesn't matter to us if this is a boy or girl. As much as I always thought I would have three kids. It is more important to us to have me be home for as long as we choose and have money to help our children out with school or anything like that. We just couldn't do that as well with three children.
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August 7th, 2012, 08:55 AM
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We want one or two more. We both really want a girl and a boy, so if #2 is a girl we'll stop, but if we have another boy we'll go for a third. If we have three boys I'm not pushing my luck for #4, though! Plus, we'll be getting on in years at that point.
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August 7th, 2012, 09:03 AM
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for now this is it for me. Unless I meet and marry someone, then I would think about having another.
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August 7th, 2012, 09:31 AM
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D-O-N-E DONE! DH had his vasectomy a week and a half ago. We are both very at peace with being done.
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August 7th, 2012, 09:39 AM
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the BF says we are done I agree for a while we need to be in a better place first but Id defiantly be open to the idea of more in a few years. I also think he will change his mind once the first is born I might be wrong though it may be me doing the mind changing. It will all depend on how things go.
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August 7th, 2012, 10:20 AM
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As it stands right now, we are done. My husband is 100% sure we are done. I'm very happy with four, and overall at peace with being done. But I know there is a possibility I'll change my mind. We will just have to see how it goes. But I'd say 95% sure we are done!
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