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DH has come to all the U/S an my first visit- but that's it. I think it's a waste for him to leave work- drive 20 minutes to and from in the middle of the day for a ten minute visit.. I am good with him comin to the important/special ones only.
He prob will come to the last couple if he isn't slammed at work (uh.... Which is rare)
Well, Frank was at the 20 week u/s (I don't know if you remember that fun story). He barely made it though. He came to my u/s a couple weeks ago but other than that I think he's been to one or two. They are usually so short anyway so I don't really think it's a big deal.
Very lucky that dh is off at least every Wed/Thur so I make my appointments for those days. He's been to every appointment. I think he went to almost every appointment with all of our kids. With our first, at 17, he had a "talk" with the OB I first saw. He asked him to "be gentle" LOL This from the dude that screwed his girlfriend til she got knocked up. lol
Hes been to most of the appointments, and all of the 'extra' appointments we have had. This month is so busy for him at work, working every day but 5 all month, he wont likely be able to go to the u/s scheduled to check his growth. If its at all possible, he'll be there but I dont think he will. I dont mind him missing the regular appointments but Im a little disappointed about the ultrasound. I know he is too. It was pretty much the same with our first pregnancy.
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Joe came to ALL of my crazy dramatic first and second trimester stuff. He hasn't come with me since I was let off strict bedrest and allowed to drive, partially because he was in a car accident and is still having a lot of back problems and has trouble riding in the car and trouble with balance so it is easier for him to stay home. He was sure a trooper driving me to my peri a couple times a week for like 5 or more months lol.
FTM- DH has made it to most appointments. The routine checks he has missed cause no point, but the big ones he has made and now that we start the cervical checks this week, he is going to try and make these last few apts. Weird to say that "last few apts" Really is the final stretch!!
BTDT- DH didn't come to any appointments except for the ultrasounds last time with Kaylee because he couldn't get time off work.
Now we have Kaylee, and though he drives me to every appointment (I don't drive...) and is there in the waiting room, he doesn't come into the office. It is too distracting to have Kaylee in there trying to climb up on me and making noises, etc.
So technically he's there, but not in the actual room.
FTM- DH has missed two appointments d/t work and let me tell you this LO is a daddies girl already! Those were the two I was sent to L&D and ultrasound. But I'm glad he does, otherwise I spend thirty minutes answering questions about a ten minute appointment.
__________________ Kelly Proud wife to Zach & Mommy to Victoria Rose December 10, 2012