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December 27th, 2012, 08:19 AM
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Update -- my friend wrote this on her Facebook with a picture. I can't share the picture of him cause I'm on my phone but here is what she wrote...

This is Aidence Eric-Dumelie Mackie. Born February 21st at 8:21 am. He weighed 8lbs 4oz and was 45cm long. He now rests his beautiful body in Sault area hospital. A women named Sharlene Thomas(His aunt and babysitter) decided 24 hours ago he didn't need a car seat and that after 9 drinks she was 'ok' to drive her friends car home. Well she hit an oncoming vehicle in the snowstorm last night and my Beautiful boy was ejected from the car on impact. Found 13 feet from the car in a snow bank, Aidence was rushed to the hospital. Where he now rests with kidney failure, Liver failure, Internal bleeding, Severe hematomas, Severe head trauma, 7 broken bones, and failed a stimulation test. No child should ever feel the amount of pain he feels now. I now ask that my friends and family on here pray for him. And I hope he pulls through! This little boy is my son and my world <3


Update 2 -- I would like to take the time to thank you ladies for all the thoughts and prayers. I am very sad and heartbroken to make this update but this sweet boy was taken off life support at 3:49am and peacefully passed at 4:01am. I can't even imagine the pain and heartbreak she is feeling. God please take good care of this little boy. Let him know he is safe now and no one will hurt him now.

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December 27th, 2012, 08:26 AM
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Lots of T&P... that's awful, I hope her little one pulls through.
I just don't understand, things like that can be easily avoided.
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December 27th, 2012, 11:37 AM
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I know! I don't understand why or how anyone could drink and drive let alone with a child in the car not in a car seat! People are just ridiculous!! Thanks for sending T&P's!!
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December 27th, 2012, 07:50 PM
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This makes me furious!! That poor child! I really hope the driver feels awful and get's what's coming to them! I know what it's like to be in a car accident on someone else's mistakes. I know it's nothing compared to this poor child, but I can understand the blame. I'm sickened!! > I will be thinking of this poor boy!
I hope he pulls through, but it won't be easy or without permanent damage.

That woman deserves some serious punishment.
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December 27th, 2012, 08:07 PM
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Praying for this sweet boy!! What horrible and tragic thing to have happen I'm so sorry for your friend!
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December 27th, 2012, 09:44 PM
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How awful!
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December 27th, 2012, 11:23 PM
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thanks ladies! she knows your praying!
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December 28th, 2012, 04:09 AM
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wow that is trrible, please keep up posted as you know more, my T&P with this family and with this poor child...

this is why i NEVER let my children ride with anyone ever, not even for the fear of someone drinking but because of not being properly restrained or lack of awareness while driving... i even double check my husband's job of putting the kids in their carseats every time, thats how paranoid i am!
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December 28th, 2012, 05:42 AM
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How incredably heart breaking!!! Defenitly sending the little guy T&Ps!!
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December 28th, 2012, 07:58 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear this Truly heartbreaking!! He's not in pain anymore and I'm praying for comfort for his family!
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December 28th, 2012, 10:14 AM
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Your poor, poor friend. I'm so sorry to hear about her baby boy.
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December 28th, 2012, 10:20 AM
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I am so deeply sorry for your friend's son. My heart hurts for them
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December 28th, 2012, 10:25 AM
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Please tell me they are pressing charges on the aunt. I'm sorry but this makes me furious!! This should have never happened to that poor sweet child!
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December 28th, 2012, 10:33 AM
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Wow!! that is heartbreaking!!! So sad to hear he didn't make it!! Just terrible
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December 28th, 2012, 11:41 AM
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THats terrible!!!! Praying for their family!!!
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December 28th, 2012, 06:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure she will be facing life in prison..
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December 28th, 2012, 07:31 PM
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That is terrible. How could someone be so selfish and careless. His poor mother must be so furious and heartbroken.
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December 28th, 2012, 07:48 PM
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Why must this happen? No child should ever be taken.
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December 28th, 2012, 08:10 PM
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I have posted a link for a YouTube video made by his mother in his memory...
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December 31st, 2012, 03:34 PM
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She deserves life in prison for sure.
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