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December 31st, 2012, 06:35 AM
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whos done it? Whos scared?whos waiting long as possible?


We did 4 weeks pp, and it was a bit incomfy at first, but wonderfull after a few min, I had really been missing that part of dh and my relationship.
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December 31st, 2012, 07:27 AM
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Scared and still waiting another two weeks at least.
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December 31st, 2012, 07:27 AM
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We've been back at it since 1 week pp!! And agreed, been loving it!
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December 31st, 2012, 07:28 AM
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we dtd 2.5 weeks after my csection.. and it hurt really bad. now im 3.5 weeks pp and it kinda hurts but not bad.. but other positions it hurts..
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December 31st, 2012, 07:44 AM
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I think we'll try next week? My lochia is finally almost gone and the thought of DTD with lochia really grosses me out. I'm not scared this time, I'm actually pretty excited about it. It's been awhile! I waited 7 weeks with #1 because of a 3rd degree tear and I think around a month with baby #2.
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December 31st, 2012, 09:19 AM
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Still bleeding here, too, and probably will for awhile. I bled until 6 weeks with my second. Not really looking forward to it, I tore and.... ugh. Yeah.
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December 31st, 2012, 09:22 AM
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Not yet. Only 3 weeks pp and scared since I still have one lingering stitch remaining and it still irritates me now & then.
I am starting to want to really bad though. Have to wait and see, hoping not to have to wait another 3 weeks to feel comfortable dtd.
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December 31st, 2012, 10:02 AM
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Well At one week we kinda pushed the limits in the shower and I was REALLY amazed by how comfortable it was! I was thinking... is this really happening? it really doesnt hurt?? We stopped though because we both got a little freaked out and he's scared lol A few days later, we did DTD, but he was still scared of hurting me. My bleeding had basically stopped at that point, but its back again, though very light. Im now 2 weeks 2 days PP, and now that the baby is actually home, Im not sure when we will DTD again! I gotta say, though, I have missed actually WANTING to do it. Glad to have a drive again!
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December 31st, 2012, 10:26 AM
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We r almost 3 weeks PP n haven't yet and I think my DH is going to die...he acts like the lack of sex is killing him and he is constantly propositioning me and I would but I still have my stitches and it's not bc I tore n got stitches in the normal area but they said I had a couple abrasions when he came out n they gave me a couple stitches on the inside ?!? on both sides and I can still feel the stitches. I told him that we can try when the stitches come out but they r still there...shouldn't they have dissolved by now??
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December 31st, 2012, 10:37 AM
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We r almost 3 weeks PP n haven't yet and I think my DH is going to die...he acts like the lack of sex is killing him and he is constantly propositioning me and I would but I still have my stitches and it's not bc I tore n got stitches in the normal area but they said I had a couple abrasions when he came out n they gave me a couple stitches on the inside ?!? on both sides and I can still feel the stitches. I told him that we can try when the stitches come out but they r still there...shouldn't they have dissolved by now??
I think I still have a lingering stitch down there.
Slow dissolving thing!

Hubby asks about 20 times a day to have sex lol
It's te first thing he says in the morning and the last thing he says at night.
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December 31st, 2012, 10:55 AM
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Not there yet. I'm starting to WANT to but am TERRIFIED of getting pg!
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December 31st, 2012, 11:10 AM
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Hubby asks about 20 times a day to have sex lol
It's te first thing he says in the morning and the last thing he says at night.
lol same here!! I don't know if he thinks that if he asks 100 times I will eventually cave but not until these stinking stitches r gone...what's up w these men?? U would think their pecker was going to fall off or something from lack of sex
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December 31st, 2012, 12:41 PM
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Well, our anniversary was yesterday- and today is my 3 week mark and we dtd just fine with no pain, bleeding or probs! Took it easy at first but it was fine!
My PP bleeding pretty much stopped about a week ago- occasional light spotting since then

So nice to have a drive and be able to again- I really missed that part of our relationship- just not the same while pregnant.

Last time around we waited four weeks but I had 3 stitches with DD, no tears this time
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December 31st, 2012, 12:53 PM
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Not there yet. I'm starting to WANT to but am TERRIFIED of getting pg!
There is that too... Hubby is totally afraid of this.
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December 31st, 2012, 01:11 PM
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I want to but I'm so freakin exhausted that the thought of it makes me even more sleepy.
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December 31st, 2012, 01:34 PM
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we started at 2weeks pp with both pregnancies and besides the fear of pregnany all is well. i hate not being able to do hormanal bc and i have to wait until i get a new dr before i can even think about an iud.
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December 31st, 2012, 02:12 PM
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I tore in 3 spots, so we're waiting until I get doctor's clearance. My appointment is on the 15th, and I am looking forward to it. Seeing DH as a Daddy has made me love him so much more.
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December 31st, 2012, 02:45 PM
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Only have had sex with myself so far lol Soon though Got IUD during the CS so I'm set there woot!
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December 31st, 2012, 03:01 PM
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We haven't yet, though it's not for DH's lack of trying. LOL He is always asking about it.
However, I'm not doing anything until all the lochia stops. Ew. But I swear these dreams I've been having are NOT helping me... LOL
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