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How's a day in your life look? I find myself struggling with my own schedule and figure I probably have it easy! Especially, with only 2 and none in school yet. But I just can't imagine keeping this up for the next few years and I cannot keep my house clean for th elife of me. I'm dragging by the time I get home and I'm a slug on weekends. Here's my typical day:
5:30 a.m. Pump
6:00 a.m. Get dressed, feed/quick walk dogs (for wienie dogs, up the driveway is enough), put together bottles for the kiddoes and load up car with all my crap (diaper bags, pump bag, gym bag, laptop bag, purse....)
6:30 a.m. Feed, change, dress kids (throw in a load of diaper laundry)
7:30 a.m. - drop kiddoes at Grandma's
7:30 a.m. - 8:30 a.m. - Commute to work
11:00 a.m. - Pump
12 p.m - 1 p.m. - Gym
3:00 p.m. - Pump
5:00 - 6:00 p.m. - drive to pick up kids
usually home with kiddoes by 7 p.m.
7:30 p.m. - Dinner & Cam's bottle
8:30 p.m. - A's bath
9:00 p.m. - Bedtime for A (we have a whole routine for this)
10:00 p.m. - Shower, Pump & feed Cam again (switch out diaper laundry - add to growing pile of clean laundry on bed)
10:30 p.m. - Bedtime Cam & me (push laundry to side and collapse)
You'll notice there is no "tv time" or "internet time" in there and I'm not even going to go into how crazy my day is at work and all the errands I have to run for that. I'm lucky if I get changed out of my work clothes before I go to bed! And this isn't even a day with A's therapy or my allergy injection or chiropractor visits. Ugh...
What really drives me nuts is this is DH's day:
7:30 a.m. - Roll out of bed
8 - 5 p.m. - Work
5 p.m. - 9 p.m. - Sit on arse...
10 p.m. - go to bed
Last edited by Leanne78; February 13th, 2013 at 11:23 AM.
Yep. Mine follows similarly some days only I don't have two children.
5:30a- Nurse Annalise
6:00a- Change A and lay in crib to entertain self
6:35a- Load A in carseat while frantically finish dressing myself and packing diaper bag
6:45a- Drop A off at sitters or MILs
5:00p -Pump (if I can get away...happening less and less it seems)
7:30p- Arrive home (A has been picked up by DH at 330p)
8:00/9:00p- Nurse A if she hasn't been fed already or pump.
10:00p- Crawl in bed and hope she wakes up at 2/3a to eat..also happening less and less so I don't get up to pump.
DH's schedule is:
6:05a- Hit alarm 3x before crawling out of bed
6:30a- Gather lunch and get dressed
3:40p- Pick up A
4:00p-7:30p- Entertain A or feed her while I'm at work
7:45p- Pass off A and make dinner
10:00p- Crawl in bed and sleep through all of A's feedings in the night
I really wish she was still having middle of the night feedings because I am hardly keeping up with the pumping. I try to let her nurse all night until bed when I get home from work and even sometimes before work. But its hit or miss. :/
Oh, and if you couldn't tell there is hardly room in there for laundry, dishes, or DH and I :/ We'll figure it out someday...for now he needs to step it up a little and I need to keep pumping while I can.
On days I work (3 days a week)… this is my rough schedule.
5:00am - wake up, shower, get ready
5:45/6am- wash bottles, get things ready for the day (lunch, etc.). Sometimes, O wakes up here & I'll make & feed him a bottle.
6:25am- Leave for work
6:45am - Arrive at work & start my day.
Get lunch sometime. Sometimes it's 11:30, sometimes it's 4pm. Just depends on how my patients are (I'm a Labor & Delivery Nurse.. I rather get my patient an epidural when she wants then sit down to eat)
7:30-8pm - Get off work
7:45-8:15pm - Get home. Fix dinner and/or eat depending on if DH made dinner already
8:15pm-9:45pm - Spend time with LO, Sit out scrubs for next day, shower, wash face
9:45pm - Feed LO last bottle for the evening & lay in cradle
10:15pm - Lights out.
Again, very rough schedule. Some days flow better than others. It's helping a LOT that my mom is coming to our house right now to watch LO. DH just has to get off work & come home.. not even pick up LO. I'm sure it's going to change when we take LO out to my moms instead of her coming here.
I'm a SAHM and my day's are pretty easy since I unfortunately bottle feed
7am: wake up, feed bella, change her and give her reflux medicine
8am- I shower
8:30am-10:30am play with bella,read to her, attempt tummy time
10:30-make bottle and feed bella, change her diaper
11am-put bella down for a nap,have some computer time,and then i finally eat
12pm- bella wakes up..i sing some songs with her, and have play time with her.
1pm-put bella in swing and clean
2pm-feed bella, change diaper.
2:30-3:30-I read while bella naps.
4pm-I eat lunch
5pm- Feed bella, and change her diaper
6pm-finally watch some TV,dinner
8pm-Make bottle for SO to feed bella.
9pm-some more reading, computer time, play with bella
11pm-bellas last feeding and attempt to put bella to sleep..she laughs and smiles so it takes her awhile to sleep
8pm- Feeds bella.
7-10 spend tme with me and bella, play ps3
10pm-go to sleep
*Thank you<3Kiliki for the siggy*
Last edited by TammyLynn1993; February 14th, 2013 at 08:23 AM.
My day is pretty similar except I don't pump. But here it is:
6:00am: Wake up and feed and change Emma.
6:30am: Let dogs out, get dressed, and let dogs back in (Thank goodness for our fenced in back yard).
6:45am: Do make up and fix hair (I'm quick with this too thankfully).
7:00am: Wake up DS and get him dressed. Then get Emma dressed. Fix DS's lunchbox if this is a school day.
7:20am: Take kids to grandma's house (really just in my backyard).
7:20am - 8:00am: Commute to work.
8:00am - 11:00am: Work
11:00am - 12:00pm: Lunch break
12:00pm - 5:00pm: More work
5:00pm - 5:30pm: Commute home and get kids from grandma's house.
6:00pm: One of us cooks dinner if DH is home. If not, I feed DS and find something for myself.
Somewhere between 7:00pm and 8:00pm: Bathe DS or Emma (I alternate nights).
9:00pm: Put DS to bed. Argue with him over getting in my bed and finally convince him to get in his own (but he ends up in mine sometime during the night anyway). If Emma is asleep, I'll put her to bed too around this time.
9:30pm: Feed cat, feed dogs (if bowl is empty- they free-feed), scoop cat litter. Let dogs out. Let dogs back in. Then get in the shower. If Emma is not asleep, she goes in the bouncer while I shower.
10:00pm: Maybe get some computer time in.
11:00pm: Go to bed.
4:00am alarm goes off I feed Nathaniel.
4:30 - 5:30 get up shower and get ready for work.
5:30 - 6 pump.
6 - 6:30 make my lunch, get kids clothes together, start a load of dishes or laundry.
6:30 - 7 go pick up babysitter.
7:15 leave for work.
11:30-12 pump and eat lunch.
3:00 pump if I can find someone to cover my desk for 15min.
4:30-5:30 head home, get kids in car, and take the sitter home.
5:30-8 dinner,feed Nathaniel, play time, baths.
8-9 put Garry to bed. Like Carrie we have to rock, read books, potty, and argue about where he will sleep.
9:30-10 dishes, house work or laundry. Whatever I can manage.
10:00-10:30 feed Nathaniel and pray he falls asleep so I can go to bed too.
Mon and Tues is the same but I get to sleep until 5 sine DH is home and I don't have to get the kids clothes together or pick up the sitter.
6:30 get up, take dog out, sneak out to the gym with breakfast I eat on the bus
8:15 home. Feed H if she is just waking up or take over if DH was taking care of her.
8:30 DH leaves for work. Put H in her bouncy seat and take my shower. Eat breakfast part two
9:00 cuddle with H. Get her ready. Play.
9:30 drop off at nanny's (my neighbor)
9:45 set up my home office for the day
13:00 lunch, walk dog
14:00 some housework
18:00 pick up H from nanny's
18:45 bathtime + feed H. DH usually gets home around now
19:30 H in bed, asleep, prep dinner
21:00 read, watch tv, hang out, internet, wrap up some work if I have to
6am: wake up and pump
6:30: Feed Kaden
6:45: finish getting ready
7:00 get DS1 ready
7:15 drive to daycare and drop off kids
7:30-8am: drive to work
8-12: see patients in clinic
1pm - 5pm: conferences, patient notes, calling patients or answering e-mails
5-6pm: drive to daycare, pick up kids, drive home
6-7pm: make dinner
7pm-7:30 eat dinner
7:30-8:00pm: give kids bath
8:00 get DS1 in bed
8:30pm feed Kaden and get to bed
9-10:30: work on patient notes or work on presentations
10:30pm: pump and go to bed
7-7:30 get all kids to eat
My schedule is different depending upon the day of the week and if i'm in the office or working from home, and what shift DH is on but here goes for tomorrow which will be my roughest day of the week:
3-4 am- nurse M(she usually wakes up around 3 or 4am nurses and falls right back asleep)
4:30 am-alarm goes off( usually I've just fallen back to sleep)
4:30 I shower at night now on the days i'm in the office and just do a quick wash up in the morning, attempt to do hair, and get dressed
5:20 let dog out and watch him out the back window(he's usually really good unless he sees the neighbors cat) while i frantically get everything ready to take with me to work(diaper bag, bottles, pump, laptop bag, purse) and load everything in car
5:50 Wake up M and change her, put her in car seat
6 ish drop M off at grandma's(on the days she can watch her)
6-7:00 or 7:20ish Commute to work
4:45 or 5 ish Pick up M from grandma's
6 will usually arrive home at this time and play or read to M
6:30 attempt to start dinner(or order out-lol) Pump while dinner is cooking and entertain M at the same time while she sits in her bouncer
7:00 Attempt to nurse M, and give her a bottle afterwards(she usually only nurses at night)
7:30 eat dinner
7:50 Change M and wipe her down( since I'm not in the office that much I won't fully bath her on the days I have to go in)
8:30 Pump, get laptop set up at home for work the next day
9:30ish will usually pass out during the first few minutes of watching tv