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May 20th, 2013, 03:11 PM
*Leah*'s Avatar TTC the newfashioned way
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I'm numb. I'm in a serious Deja vu. Last May, my first appt at 9w, showed an undeveloped baby, no heartbeat measuring 6w2d. Today, my beautiful little heartbeart at 6w6d, which was measuring perfectly, was gone. Reduced to a little shrunken 6w2d little embryo. I would have been 9w tomorrow.

I guess I was not meant to have a Dec Baby. Again.

So, they want me to have a D&C (ins won't cover) and they want to do diagnostics on the "products of conception". My RE wants to test this...but I don't have another 4k ....

I'm just so mad and angry right now, I can't believe this is happening .... again.
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May 20th, 2013, 03:16 PM
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I'm so very sorry honey.
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May 20th, 2013, 03:25 PM
*MaLLoRy*'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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(((((Hugs))))) I am so so sorry!!
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May 20th, 2013, 03:34 PM
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OH NOO!! I cant believe it...I'm soo sorry.. this isnt fair
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May 20th, 2013, 03:36 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon.
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May 20th, 2013, 03:37 PM
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I'm so sorry!!! I was heartbroken to see this!
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May 20th, 2013, 03:40 PM
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I am soooo sorry to hear this!! My T&P are with you and your family.
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May 20th, 2013, 03:48 PM
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I am so deeply sorry....there's no other words I can say but I will be praying for you!
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May 20th, 2013, 04:03 PM
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Oh no... I am so sorry to hear this.
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May 20th, 2013, 04:18 PM
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I'm so sorry
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May 20th, 2013, 04:32 PM
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I'm so very sorry.
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May 20th, 2013, 04:42 PM
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I'm sorry Leah
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May 20th, 2013, 04:46 PM
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I am so very sorry! Big hugs
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May 20th, 2013, 05:02 PM
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I'm so so sorry hun. Thoughts, prayers, & BIG BIG hugs are with you hun.
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May 20th, 2013, 05:10 PM
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Oh no!! I'm so sorry for your loss dear. I hope ur in another ddc soon. :-(
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May 20th, 2013, 05:12 PM
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My heart is broken for you. Many prayers!
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May 20th, 2013, 05:20 PM
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I am so so sorry Leah.
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Me (43) DH(33) 12 years together - ttc our first together-I have 14yr old DS
Cycles 1-6 = BFN
Cycle 7 SA results abnormal morphology 2%, 50 mg clomid = BFN
Cycle 8 sonogram normal 50 mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 9 SA results abnormal morphology and motility. Count 200 mill, 100mg clomid + trigger = BFN
Cycle 10 natural = BFN
Cycle 11 hsg tubes clear, natural + trigger+IUI = BFN
Cycle 12 repronex + trigger + 2 IUI = BFN
Cycle 13 natural ovaries to stimulated for more meds = BFN
Cycle 14-22 natural cycle with Acupuncture and planning ivf/icsi/DE = ALL BFN
Cycle 23 Clomid 50 mg & Progesterone = BFN
Cycle 24 Natural = BFN
Cycle 25 BCP, SA result 7% morphology = BFN
Cycle 26 BCP and Lupron preparing for IVF
Cycle 27 IVF Acupuncture, DE Retrieval April 7, Transfer April 12 =
7 eggs retrieved, 3 fertilized, 2 transferred - zero snow babies
BETA # 1 16DPO or 11dp5dt = 569
BETA # 2 19 DPO or 14dp5dt = 1078
BETA # 3 22DPO or 17dp5dt = 2414 TWINS!
BETA # 4 30DPO or 25dp5dt = 12,685 6weeks 3days 2 heartbeats! 114 & 116
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May 20th, 2013, 05:29 PM
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I am so very sorry.
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May 20th, 2013, 05:58 PM
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I am so sorry! Thoughts and prayers with you!
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May 20th, 2013, 06:02 PM
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Oh Leah. Words just can't even express how sad I am for you. My heart is breaking that you've now dealt with this at all, much less twice now. Lots of thoughts, prayers and love coming your way.
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