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June 15th, 2013, 05:46 PM
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I cry as I type this but after much consideration and about a million phone calls yesterday to my doctor I have scheduled a D&E for Friday morning....

I know there will be plenty of people reading this that will judge me but I also hope there are some people who understand how hard this is for me and that every woman/family is different and I have to do what I feel is right for myself, my husband, and my two children. Even though I know in my heart its the right decision for me, this is still going to be the hardest thing I have ever done.

I am scared but I'm even more scared not to do it. I know one day I will come to peace with my decision, but I know it will take time. My due date is on Christmas Eve and I just know the holidays are going to be tough this year....

You ladies have been amazing, this is one great group!! I wish you all the best in everything that you do!! I'll lurk around from time to time to see how everything is going.... and I'll definitely be thinking of you all as December rolls through!

Thank you all for the thoughts and prayers, having this group to post in and read everyone's stories have truly helped more than you know. <3
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June 15th, 2013, 05:55 PM
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Like I said in the other thread, it's an awful position to be put in, and only you and your husband can make the right decision for your family. I'm so very sorry that it turned out this way. I hope that you can find peace.
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June 15th, 2013, 06:09 PM
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I'm heartbroken for you dear. I can't imagine how hard this decision is for you. I will definately be praying for you. Stay strong dear and please don't worry about the opinions of others. This couldn't be easy for anyone.
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June 15th, 2013, 06:14 PM
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~crying with you~ (((((Mama))))
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June 15th, 2013, 06:22 PM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this I cant imagine how hard this must be for you.. HUGS*
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June 15th, 2013, 06:24 PM
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June 15th, 2013, 08:24 PM
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I really hope you find peace in this time. I can only begin to imagine the emotions that must be pumping through your body. Find support and comfort anywhere you can and utilize it as much as possible. Xoxo
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June 15th, 2013, 08:45 PM
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Oh honey, I'm so sorry you're going through this. ((((HUGS)))) Sending thoughts & prayers to you and your family.
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June 15th, 2013, 09:18 PM
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So sorry you are dealing with this. Please only worry about your family it's your decision to make. God bless your family.
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June 15th, 2013, 09:37 PM
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I am so so sorry to hear this mama, and I'm sad to see you leave .

I will pray that God helps you and your family find peace.


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June 15th, 2013, 09:51 PM
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I'm so sorry. I know that this is the hardest decision that you've ever had to make and i hate that you had to make it. Lots of good vibes to you. I hope everything goes smoothly for you.
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June 16th, 2013, 03:46 AM
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I am so sorry for this. I am praying that you find peace. HUGS
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June 16th, 2013, 04:44 AM
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Stopping in from the Aug DDC. I just wanted to say how sorry I am. This is something only you and your family can decide on and know in your heart that you are making the right choice. Sending thoughts and prayers your way at this time.
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June 16th, 2013, 05:00 AM
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(((Hugs))) to the baby.
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June 16th, 2013, 05:43 AM
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Lurking from Novemeber. Wanted to send my support and let you know how very sorry I'am for you. Don't worry about the opinions of others, no one will ever know what they would do until they walked a day in your shoes including myself. May god watch over you and I pray for peace and comfort through this for you and your family.
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June 16th, 2013, 05:48 AM
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thank you all
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June 16th, 2013, 06:06 AM
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Don't worry about the opinions of others, no one will ever know what they would do until they walked a day in your shoes including myself.
I couldn't agree more....wishing you all the best and strength. I know this must be such a heart wrenching decision but ONLY YOU know what's right for you and your family. I just want to give you a big hug and reassure you that everything will be okay again.
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June 16th, 2013, 06:08 AM
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No judgement here. I'm absolutely heartbroken for you. . I'm so sorry you have to go through this and having to make such a tough decision. Only you know what is best for you and your family. Don't worry about what others think. My thoughts are with you. (((((Hugs)))))
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June 16th, 2013, 06:10 AM
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I'm so sorry. words can't do justice to what you're feeling and going through. I am thinking of you and wishing you the strength to get you through
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June 16th, 2013, 06:20 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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