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June 23rd, 2013, 11:02 PM
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How is she doing? Did she have the D&C? I think about her all the time I wonder if there's anything we as a ddc could do for her?
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June 24th, 2013, 03:43 AM
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i hope shes ok
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June 24th, 2013, 06:16 AM
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I imagine this is the last place she wants to be right now.


I hope she is getting the support she needs to get her through this.
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June 24th, 2013, 09:20 AM
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I imagine this is the last place she wants to be right now.
Yeah, that's what I think too. :/ I've been praying for her.
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June 24th, 2013, 09:27 AM
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I've been thinking of her.
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June 24th, 2013, 11:21 AM
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Hope shes doing okay.
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June 24th, 2013, 12:48 PM
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I was thinking of her as well...hoping she's doing okay.
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June 25th, 2013, 08:09 AM
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Hi ladies... I have been popping into JM from time to time because so many wonderful ladies have been messaging me... so glad I peeped over and show this post!

I did get the D&E done on Friday and it was definitely the worst experience of my life but since then I have been spending the last few days focusing on my boys and enjoying them and I am at peace with my decision and know I did the right thing for my family. I'm following the advice of a counselor who told me "its okay to mourn, but remember its okay to move on" So if I wake up sad- I let myself have a good cry but then I get in the shower, wash it away, and come out determined to enjoy the family I have and all the positive things in my life.

The hardest part has been telling family and friends we lost the baby, thankfully everyone has been extremely supportive and there for me 100%. I have an amazing support system. I do hope to be a part of another DDC one day but for now I'm taking this whole experience as a sign to enjoy my wonderful family and appreciate what I have.

All your thoughts and prayers have been much appreciated!
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June 25th, 2013, 08:13 AM
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You have such a great attitude about this whole situation. I know it was a hard decision to make and am glad you are able to make peace with it. (((hugs)))
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June 25th, 2013, 09:09 AM
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I agree with you, SweetiePeas. It is a great attitude to have. I'm glad you've been doing well and are focusing on the kids right now, I'm sure being around them has helped a lot. I'm so glad that your family and friends have been so supportive. <3
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June 25th, 2013, 09:34 AM
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im so happy to hear from you! i think about you so often. i can't imagine the whirlwind of emotions you must be feeling right now. im glad you are snuggling your babes close and using the support you have! do you know when you will ttc again? Did they give you any time frame? I'm going to be stalking you please pop in and let us know how you're doing, because I know we sure have been thinking about you!
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June 25th, 2013, 10:21 AM
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I'm glad you're okay and have the support of your family. You and your family are in my prayers.
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June 25th, 2013, 03:52 PM
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I have been thinking about you too. I am glad that you are seeking outside support to get through this difficult time. I do the same thing in the shower when upset...definitely helps to release it all, that way you can get by the rest of the day. I admire your strength with all of this.
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June 25th, 2013, 04:54 PM
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you ladies have been fabulous and its great to know there are such awesome mamas out there.....

I don't have any plans about ttc anytime soon- but I never really had to try hard, I'm one of the lucky woman that pretty much just think they want to get pregnant and do lol....my husband says hes way too nervous to ever get pregnant again and that this whole experience has scared him too much.... Although the doctor say its okay to get pregnant after one regular period cycle- I'm definitely no where near ready, but on the other hand ,I think that 26 is too young to say "never" again, you never know where life is going to take you. As someone who has always loved being pregnant- I am pretty terrified just of the thought of it, so that's going to be the obstacle I will have to figure out how to overcome with time.
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June 25th, 2013, 04:59 PM
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i think you will know when the time is right. i think you are a wonderful momma, and your strength inspires me.
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December 9, 2013
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June 25th, 2013, 11:00 PM
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You know, pregnancy after a loss of any kind is terrifying. I know it was really hard for Matt. He didn't argue with getting pregnant again fairly quickly because Cora was our first and I didn't *have* any other children to smother. But men are fixers. And this is a situation they can't fix. And if you do get pregnant again...it's entirely outside your control. But if you never get pregnant again, you'll never have to go through it again.

For me...I have always been terrified with every one. Terrified at the *idea.* But I knew I was ready to give it another go when I wanted another baby MORE than I was scared. That the chance of another healthy baby was worth the risk.

But, it's only been mere DAYS for you, so take your time. The only way through it is to go through it. I do the same thing with the shower by the way. For me, it still holds true 7 years later. Those moments don't come nearly as often, but they still do occasionally, and that's okay.

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June 26th, 2013, 05:40 AM
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Thats because the shower is our only alone time! LOL Thankfully for the kids, I can't be sad and depressed all day even if I want to- I'm forced to pull myself together and function through the day for their sake.... and there's no better distraction from your worries and fears than sitting at the dining room table finger painting!
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June 26th, 2013, 10:29 AM
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I love cowardly trolls. I love that you joined today to post that. Ugh religious zealots.
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June 26th, 2013, 10:37 AM
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That is odd. Is that someone from our board under another name? How would they have known to post here otherwise?
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June 26th, 2013, 11:26 AM
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Lurker....but moderators need to take a look at this thread. This is a supportive place and if you can't be supportive, keep your mouth shut!
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