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September 18th, 2013, 06:40 AM
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The NICU is supposed to come see me for a consult sometime today. Any questions I should ask? I've never had a preemie.
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September 18th, 2013, 07:38 AM
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Oh... I hate that you have to go through this! ((HUGS)) I've no idea what to ask. Maybe ask a general question about what to expect, how often you can see baby, when can you do kangaroo care/cuddles, maybe what common issues are had with babies born at 28, 32, 36 (etc...) weeks. We're all praying you hit that 35 week mark like the goal! I'd ask for a pen and paper because you may want to take some notes. I know when I'm given a ton of info, even if they provide pamphlets, I still lose some of the info I wish I had written down. Here's some baby baking dust for you!
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September 18th, 2013, 07:50 AM
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Heavy-hearted here as well over your going through this! Prayers and great hope for much more time, as well as good health and longevity no matter what happens. You are wrapped in loving thoughts ALL.THE.TIME, girl!!!!!

Sorry I don't have any knowledge on what to ask.
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September 18th, 2013, 08:17 AM
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Maybe ask about nursing... What are your chances of doing it and will they feed with your pump milk if you desire? Not sure if that is what you want to do but good question to ask.
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September 18th, 2013, 08:18 AM
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Hugs to you and your little one...I hope you are able to bake that baby for many more weeks!

The NICU docs/nurses are a wealth of info. Definitely take notes. Get a phone number so you can call later when you think of more questions you want to ask.

At this point all they can really do is give you general info, because the equipment your baby will have, the restrictions as far as what you are allowed to do, how often or if you can hold your baby, what testing your baby will have, etc. will all depend on when he is finally born and any health issues that he may have. Like Gwynne said, they should be able to give you info about common issues that babies face at each stage (before 28 weeks, 28 weeks, 30 weeks, 32 weeks, etc.).

Discuss feeding options. Your baby may not be able to eat right away, but when he can, they need to know how you want to handle it. If you are a formula feeder there really won't be any issues, but if you want to breastfeed and/or pump, make sure that is noted on your file. You may be able to rent a hospital-grade breast pump, which is a huge help in getting your supply established. The hospital likely has a lactation consultant that you can see even before your baby arrives to make sure you are prepared and they can answer questions about BFing a preemie.

My cervix was down to around .5-.75 at 24.5 weeks and I didn't deliver my twins until 33w1d. Yesterday was the one year anniversary of bringing them home, and they are completely normal, healthy 1-year olds. Sending prayers and good wishes your way for many more weeks of being pregnant!
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September 18th, 2013, 08:39 AM
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^Good advice there.

The NICU nurses are the most caring people I have ever met. They LOVE their job and they LOVE your baby.

Def ask about feeding and what you should do. If you are BF'ing I would recommend starting to pump right away. When my daughter was in the NICU it made me feel so much better to pump because then I was doing something for her.
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September 18th, 2013, 01:23 PM
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Thanks everyone! Breastfeeding has been my main concern so far. I actually have a friend looking into donated breast milk in case mine takes awhile to come in or I have issues.

I'm definitely fighting to make it to 35 weeks. The good thing is I haven't had any symptoms of ptl so far.
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September 18th, 2013, 07:13 PM
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Some really great advise here! Just want to add that my thoughts & prayers are with you!! I hate that you are going through this. I had my daughter at 32 weeks & she was a fighter! She was completely healthy & came home from the NICU after a little over a week.
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