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August 13th, 2013, 07:19 AM
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So I was absolutely terrible with Connors journal hopefully this one will go better

Im allready 14 weeks along with this litttle cashew and Connors 10 month birthday was yesterday. Iv got another apt tommorow so I guess we will see how that goes but for now I guess its best to cover whats allready happened

8 weeks- positive pee stick didnt belive it took another it agreed so I called to set up a proof of pregnancy appt (I have to have doctor written proof of pregnancy for my insurance)

10 weeks- proof of pregnancy apt they agreed with the peestick lol, took the paperwork up to insurance then went back to my Ob a few days later for a dateing scan

12 weeks- storm flooded apt building, started bleeding, went in for my blood labs, they decided to do another Us to determain the cause of bleeding, i was diognosed with a 7 cm subcorionic hemorage

14 weeks- were moveing back into apt and trashing half our stuff from damages, Im going to my appt tommorow but for right now just eating and sleeping as normal I found the double stroller and matching carseat that i want to get for almost $200 cheaper so thats a plus.

sometimes i find it hard to belive im pregnant i mean its starting to get a little obvious lol but theres just so much going on even though im on here all the time and probly spend half my day everyday makeing the perfect amazon wishlist lol sometimes i just kinda forget you know.
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August 15th, 2013, 01:48 PM
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14 weeks is now 15 weeks becuse my edd was moved to feb 2nd

I was diagnosed with Anti Duffy Fyb after my blood labs ;( but hopefully there wont be a reaction between my and little bits blood types also it seems Fyb normaly results in smaller reactions if there is a problem so thats good to

ill be going on progosterone shots soon (possibly next week) to try and keep this LO in for the full bake cycle

Im still down 10 lbs at 15 weeks which is a lil weird last pregnancy I started out way to low body weigt and ended up gaining almost 30 lbs in the first tri alone this time i start normal and end up underweight what gives lol im thinking about buying a blender an trying out shakes like someone suggested to try an aff in some nutriant density.

ill be starting weekly apts soon so at least ill allways have a heads up on littke bit.
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August 20th, 2013, 11:00 AM
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been letting myself think to much lately iv got my 16 week appt in 2 days so hopefully that will calm me down a bit I know there are much worse things to be facing but I keep running over everything that's going on this time and freaking myself out.

when I first found out i was pregnant my only real concern was preterm labor I knew i already had a pretty substantial list of risk factors
previous preterm birth
recurrent BV
less then a year since last pregnancy
the only thing i wasn't dealing with this time was low body weight and smoking but neither of those were really that far in the past.

then I started bleeding yeay now we get to add a 7 cm subcorionic hemorrhage to the list of reasons my baby will probably come early..................not even to mention all the fun things that come along with the hemorrhage its-self like bleeding like a stuck pig even though your pregnant or being on pelvic rest........ for the next 8 months. allright fine we add a subcorionic hemorrhage I didnt want to deal with it agin but iv BTDT and Connor ended up fine in the long run so ill deal.

then I found out im losing weight which for the normal person is great but not for the pregnant & nurseing woman who is finally at an avg weight for a consistent amount of time for the first time since she was 16.......no for that person its a proverbial death sentence. for the first time ever Im working my *** off to not lose weight and im failing miserably. for the first time ever im looking in a mirror and seeing the ghost of a human being that I used to think was so disgusting and fat reemerge and it terrifys me. oh yeah and that little part about how iv now lost so much that im underweight agin which is, you guessed it, a risk factor for pre term labor. actually technically so is loseing weight while your pregnant so I guess I get to 2 for one that one huh.

so now my risk factors for preterm labor are
previous preterm birth
recurrent BV
less then a year since last pregnancy
subcorionic hemorrhage
weightloss
and low body weight
yep that totaly seems to be headed in a positive direction......not

allright fine so i have even more risk factors for preterm labor doctors can do something about that right why yes they can its called progesterone shots to bad my insurance is trying to complicate my getting them as much as possible. thankfully its hopefully worked out now but that was just another load of things for me to freak out over. oh yeah isnt high stress levels also considered a risk for preterm labor *facepalm*

but you know what they cant do crap about........ other then my hemorrhage which they also cant do crap about....... they cant do crap about this duffy marker thing we just get to wait and see if my body literally attacks my baby...... what fun.

IDK im just in a wretched mood lately that and al the ladies getting back positives on their genetic screening is making me wonder if i made a mistake passing it up not that finding out something is wrong would help but is it really that far fetched to think something might be wrong with little bean since everything thats possible seems to be going wrong with me. I guess im just sick of being sick, and worrying that im not good enough to actually even grow a baby right, I just want to hurry up and get on these progesterone shots iv heard they work pretty well so at least thats one major thing that will be off my list of worries. or at lest a lower level of worry lol. right now im terrified of haveing little bit between now an viability i just cant handle making it this far and still losing it.

ugg it needs to be the 22nd I just wanna see a doctor even if they cant do crap I think ill feel better if I can just see someone you know just get looked at and told your still good sweetheart so calm the f down......I tried to walk down to the store an pick up a few things we needed to get my mind off things and on the way home I got so dizzy I chouldnt see at all and was doubled over on the side of the road thankfully my boyfriend had gone with and helped me get back but it definatly did not help help with my worry train ugggg.
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August 22nd, 2013, 01:17 PM
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16 week appt was today it did help alot to go.

I managed to gain back 2 whole lbs so now im only down 12. but I didnt learn any more about my Duffy markers the doctor who was researching them wasnt there today.

I opted in to the blood test for genetic screening Id previously opted out but after so many ppl on here getting back positives and everything that is going on with me I decided it was a little bit naive to just hope for the best when i had the opportunity to prepare for reality whatever that might be. they went ahead and did the blood draw today so i guess ill have those results in a few weeks to. fingers crossed for the best.

I got my first progesterone shot yeay thats a huge load off my shoulders and scheduled my anatomy scan which will be in 4 weeks.

daddy unit took Connor to the pediatritian while i was at the OB becuse he has a diaper yesterday that looked like there was blood in his urine.....turns out my little guy is currently dehydrated and anemic so someones on pretty strict additions of pedialite and iorn supplaments for a while and i may have to look into supplementing as it seems my milk supply might have dropped a good bit more then i though.
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August 23rd, 2013, 08:25 PM
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went through all the places i store pics and found all my belly pics from connor iv got
12,17,24,27,29,31 and 34 week pics and so far of the new one iv got 12 and 16 (i figured 16 is close enough to 17 right) im going to try and take pictures on the same weeks and do a comparison between pregnancys i think it will be really cool.
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August 26th, 2013, 11:19 AM
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Insurance is causing problems again, imagine that. hoping that they will except this paperwork if not i might be losing my progesterone heck i might be losing all my coverage because their being retards. trying just to go through the process and not stress about the results because there is no reason i dont qualify for this coverage. but I cant help but worry since theres no reson i should have been put in this situation to start with either.

also a little worried about Harley she attacked me today for no reson i mean i know shes highly defensive of her kittens (cant really blame a momma there) but anytime she defended them before they had actually gotten hurt today i was literally just getting a pack of cookies from the cupbord i dont even think the lil fluffers were on that side of the room. IDK what she got in her head. weirdest part is right after she got done useing my leg as a punching bag scratch post combo she litterally just walked off and then came back for me to pet her wow bipoler much sweetness.
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August 30th, 2013, 10:34 AM
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so went in for my weekly progesterone shot today hurry (my butt burns lol)

babys hb was in the 140s today being very active or so the doctor said i still cant feel a single twitch but i was literally watching her chase baby with the wand so I guess I got a shaker lol.

the genetic screening came back negative so we should be having a health little bit hopefully yey.

I had gained back some weight when my sickness slowed down but its back agin and suprise suprise im losing agin. so doc said its pretty obvious this isnt going away and that im not managing it on my own so iv been prescribed something to hopefully help keep the sickness at bay.

Ill be going agin on the 6th and my anatomy scan is set up for the 19th yeay
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September 13th, 2013, 03:51 PM
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forgot to update last few appts so ill play catch up now

18 weeks- should have just been a 17P shot for me but I was concerned I might be dialating as well as that I may have thrush so i got worked into a doctor as well. my cervix is soft and flared at the entrance but acording to US the import part is still long and closed. I do however have thrush.

Connor was also at the pedi agin during this one we had resolved the dehydration but not the constipation and while i was checking him for signs of thrush I discovered an upper lip tie. she put him an a diet of only fresh fruits and veggies and cooked unseasoned meats to help with digestion (no carbs grains starches ect) and set him up to get his lip clipped by the specialist next month. we also got several meds for the thrush and a stool softener.

week 19- this one actually was just a 17P shot nothing speciel met a new nurse that transferred in from a high risk practice a few towns over she gave me my shot today.... wasnt terrible hurt alot less the the last RN lol. talked to the triage nurse about my insurance still trying to cause issues with covering all my high risk treatments yeay me.

less then a week to my anatomy scan now.... countdown activated lol ill have another OB apt an shot the day after that to....Connors doing alot better now as well so all in all everything is looking up. oh and i may or may not finally be feeling movement at 19 weeks i thought a kick the other day but im still not convinced.
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September 25th, 2013, 09:35 AM
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how on earth did I forget to update with my anatomy scan lol so here we go

ITS A GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so little Kylie Jade will be joining us hopefully still like 5 months from now lol but hey Im viable in 2 and a half weeks now so I guess My arrivle window starts pretty soon hopeing the shots keep her cozzy for a while

Connors been doing much bettter lately to I think we finally got the diat down cuz he is pooping/peeing regualerly with no screaming much haapier and more active hes starting to cruise furniture and stuff now and he wasnt even crawling a month ago so huge progress with the iorn supplements as well.

Im going in tomorrow morning for my 21 week 17 P shot and after that hopefully ill be able to get them at home if all the paperwork goes through......then I may only have to go in monthly for a bit everything looked so good at the anatomy scan they discused dropping my checkups down a notch since I havnt had any real contractions or anything lately
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October 7th, 2013, 05:05 PM
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a little late on updates as useal

21 weeks just a progosteron shot the nurse tried to use to small a gauge needle and the dang thing exploded and sprayed all of it back on her face that was kinda funny............ untill i had to get a second shot

22 weeks suprise suprise my insurance still hasnt come though so I had to go in for my shot again. turns out iv been itching and welting up for the last week becuse im developing an allergy to the progosterone what fun. also iv almost gained all my weight back.

23 weeks I actually havnt had this apt yet its on friday but its just another shot so ill go ahead and put it up here I just wanted to update on connor really

Connors still way off his growth curve even though hes doing much better physically with his diet he also still has thrush cradle cap and is anemic (were just doing great huh) he was sent to the hospital for blood labs to see if there may be an underlying infection or other cause for the weight lose and we got a few more tweeks to his diet.

she wants us giving him significantly less juice and introducing 2 sippys of whole milk a day now that hes 1. we all know how wonderfully changing things up has gone so far but I did find a white grape peach juice that he will drink thats much easier to water down without inciting rage then the mango juice so we have progress on that front the whole drinking milk from cups thing is still an atrocity at the moment though.

he was supposed to get his lip tie cliped but we had to reschedule because of everything with the pediatrician so thats on the 21st now.

oh also Connors first birthday is saturday Im getting pretty amped and to top it of Kylie will be official viable the day after so this is a good weekend.
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November 5th, 2013, 05:16 PM
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falling behind agin with the updates im really bad at this Ill try to think back and get everything in

24 weeks- Everything Finally got sorted out with my insurance and the nurse started coming out to my home to give me the shots first visit took a while becuse we had tons of paperwork and stuff but all in all went pretty well oh other then me basicly passing out during the shot IDK why but thats the second time now shes giveing them to me on the bed from here on out apparently

25 weeks- Connors lip tie was suposed to be cliped but turns out the ENT that the pedi schedualed us to see doesnt do lip ties so it looks like he will still be lip tied for a while as the only provider near here that will do it is to far away and doesnt except our insurance.

I got my shot at home agin then after being sick all week I went to my primary care provider since i didnt think it was a pregnancy thing big mistake it was my first time there and the office is a total joke i wont be returning so the next day I went into the OB and they figured out iv got HSV1 yeay so now im on anti viral meds and painkillers hopefully the sores and swelling will go down so i can start eating agin since iv droped back down to 135 agin now.

26 weeks- shot at home went ok but Connor has caught my HSV1 an he is teething so he is miserable and wakeing up almost every hour lots of tylonal in use at the moent not helping the fact that my outbreak still hasnt healed completly so I cant sleep or eat right to start with

27 weeks- were both doing a good bit better Connor is significantly worse then me at the moment but since his started later i guess its to be expected my shots went ok agin this week and Kylie still sounds great im mostly just stressing about my wieght at the moment.
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December 5th, 2013, 12:18 PM
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oh look how surprising i forgot to update this for like a month now

28 weeks- just a shot sound boreing but boring is good

29 weeks- im finally back to my pre preg weight of 139 whoot whoot.had my glucose test didnt go terrible really just got to wait for results now....... shot went fine to nothing special

30 weeks- just a shot this week nothing special bought a bunch of food for turkey day so that should be great

31 weeks- im still only 141lbs and kylie is measuring behind now she had a growth check and several of the measurements came back at <5% at lest i passsed the glucose test thought. my nurses is setting me up with a nutritionist to try and work things out iv got 4 weeks to get her back on track *fingers crossed*
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December 28th, 2013, 06:23 AM
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32 weeks- another shot had some trouble finding kylie withthe doppler this time but we finally got her

33 weeks- finally gaining looks like this diet is doing something after all im at 147 whoot whoot im long and closed to but baby still feels breech (blah)

34 weeks- shot went well nurse brought connor a christmas present he was pretty excited
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