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  #1  
May 22nd, 2013, 04:28 PM
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So everything went great at my 2nd sonogram! Baby is on track & I have my first proper prenatal appointment next Friday!

Despite this, I am still of course terrified of miscarriage! I know thats everyones biggest fear in the first trimester...& I'm scared that sex could cause one!

My DF I can tell misses it LOL...we havent done it since we found out...is everyone else still DTD, am I being WAY too paranoid:..
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:26 PM
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Everything I have read says its ok unless the Dr's say otherwise. But remember there are things other than sex that can be done.
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:31 PM
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No DTD here. At least not until at least 12 weeks. We've worked hard for 4 and a half years for this baby, we're not going to risk it. Besides, I'm using prometrium vaginally, I don't think it'd be great for DH
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:33 PM
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I just havent felt like it in a while. I feel bad, I gave it up in a drop of a hat the past 4 months now, im like ehhh Im good lol! hahahha
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:37 PM
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Well glad I'm not the only one! We've also been thru a lot for this baby...I think he can hold out til the 2nd trimester! Lol!
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:39 PM
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& yes I also haven't felt like it....its like 'eh blah' at the thought of sex haha. I guess I feel a lil bad!
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:41 PM
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Yea I dont feel that bad lol! I already feel a little crappy sooo I would like to not be touched for like a week or two! ha.
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:48 PM
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At least I'm not alone lol we have done it once since April 29th (BFP) and that was after a lot of begging on his part and I made him be really gentle.
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May 22nd, 2013, 05:49 PM
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I avoided it til my wedding night of course lol we've dtd twice so far we just do it easy and no orgasms for me lol
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May 22nd, 2013, 06:42 PM
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We've dtd twice since I got my bfp. Id much rather sleep these days!
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May 22nd, 2013, 06:48 PM
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We've dtd twice since I got my bfp. Id much rather sleep these days!
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May 22nd, 2013, 07:02 PM
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We're not nearly as active but we've done it probably 3 times in the past week and a half (since we found out).
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May 22nd, 2013, 07:08 PM
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I just have to say that pregnant orgasms are better than any other O you can have! We are still having sex, just not as frequently as before...sleep is interfering!
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May 22nd, 2013, 07:18 PM
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My boyfriend and I have proply done it four times or so since we found out. But we also just got a puppy and we have been finding it hard to find the time lol. We joke around and say its worse then having a new baby. I find orgasms way more intense now that I'm pregnant. My boyfriend makes sure I get all the sleep possible though. He gets up with the dog and takes care of her during the day so that I can have naps. So I'm proply a lot less tired then you guys
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May 22nd, 2013, 07:22 PM
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I still enjoy it. I was put on pelvic rest for part of my pregnancy last time and my sex drive was through the roof! I am going to enjoy it this time unless I'm told not to!!! So things haven't changed in that department for us. That's how I got in this predicament!
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May 22nd, 2013, 10:31 PM
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We are still having sex, though not as frequently. I'm still trying to make sure he is satisfied though even if I'm not feeling in the mood! I know it's important for him, and I'm happy that he is willing to let me assist in 'other' ways.

I think we have done it a total of four times since we've found out, which was almost a month ago.
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May 23rd, 2013, 04:48 AM
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We are still having sex, though not as frequently. I'm still trying to make sure he is satisfied though even if I'm not feeling in the mood! I know it's important for him, and I'm happy that he is willing to let me assist in 'other' ways.

I think we have done it a total of four times since we've found out, which was almost a month ago.
Yea that, we have not had sex in like a week- week and a half, but he's fine. lol. I am tired after work all day, taking care of everything else in the evening (like our VERY busy 17 month old lol) sooo I want nothing but sleep at night.
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May 23rd, 2013, 05:37 AM
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Um... I woke my husband up last night. Something about these hormones. Jeez.
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May 23rd, 2013, 06:11 AM
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^ god I hope that happens to me; we probably dtd maybe once/twice a month last time I was pregnant, I felt sooooo bad but I was never ever ever in the mood.
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May 23rd, 2013, 06:22 AM
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We are still having a fair amount. Now that we don't have to worry about birth control I find I enjoy it more...but I've been sick and tired so its harder to get me started
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