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May 24th, 2013, 09:11 AM
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Bad news, it's an ectopic pregnancy We went for the ultrasound today and my uterus was completely empty, not even a gestational sac... But the doctor saw something in my ovary They did nother HPT and my test is still very high, which would explain my real pregnancy symptoms. They're sending my blood to the hospital to know my level. They're going to give me something to get rid of the baby T__T I'll also have to have more betas done to make sure it's back to 0. It's a real nightmare. Life is screwing with me.

After almost 5 years, we haven't suffered enough...
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May 24th, 2013, 09:20 AM
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*hugs* I am so sorry to hear this. I will be praying for you.
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May 24th, 2013, 09:25 AM
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Awww... Sweetie, I'm sooo very sorry. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers *hugs*
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May 24th, 2013, 09:25 AM
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You are in my thoughts. No one should ever have to go through any type of pregnancy loss, especially after so many years trying. I am so so sorry.
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May 24th, 2013, 09:28 AM
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So sorry sweetie. Thinking of you.
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May 24th, 2013, 09:35 AM
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Oh no. I'm so sorry I'll keep you in my T&Ps.
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May 24th, 2013, 09:56 AM
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I'm so, so sorry for your loss. So sad for you.
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May 24th, 2013, 10:09 AM
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I'm so sorry
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May 24th, 2013, 10:09 AM
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I am so sorry.
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May 24th, 2013, 10:39 AM
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Sorry for your loss
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May 24th, 2013, 11:07 AM
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That is just awful. I am so sorry for your loss.
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May 24th, 2013, 11:10 AM
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So sorry to hear that.
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May 24th, 2013, 11:24 AM
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So sorry....I've been there & its very scary. Take it easy & know there is hope after an EP <3
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May 24th, 2013, 12:33 PM
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Very sorry! Dont give up hope!
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May 24th, 2013, 12:58 PM
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I am so sorry
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May 24th, 2013, 03:24 PM
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I am very sorry!
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May 24th, 2013, 06:39 PM
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Pfff we don't even know if it's an ectopic pregnancy. I called the clinic again to talk to a nurse cause i wanted more info. They'll check if my hcg level is super high, that would mean an ectopic. I'll have the results Monday. If it's low then it's going to end on its own. If its normal they're going to do more blood tests to see if it's going up or down. It would otherwise be a chemical. But according to the nurse, there should have at least been a sac. They said to stop my meds and I did. I have faith that if the bean is somehow hidden in my uterus, it'll pull through. What the doctor saw in my ovary wasn't the embryo but the corpus luteum which secretes progesterone.

I'm down in the dumps and a part of me knows this isn't going to end well but a part of me has doubts.

Thank you for your support. I'll come back to let you guys know what is happening, but in the mean time, I will stay away.
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May 24th, 2013, 06:58 PM
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It's really hard for me to respond to this type of post because words can even being to express how much pain I feel in my heart for each and every woman who suffers a loss, but I really wanted to offer my love and prayers!!! I'm praying for you and this baby and I'm so sorry that you are going through this. ((big hugs!!)) I hope everything is okay.
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May 25th, 2013, 09:03 AM
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Thanks
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May 26th, 2013, 09:44 AM
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*hugs* I'm sorry that you're going through this.
I hope that everything turns out ok
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