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What birth control will you be using or will you not be using any birth control?
This is a hot topic in our house and we can't seem to agree. I'm positive that I don't want any more kids so I really want DH to get a vasectomy but he refuses. He wants me to go on birth control but I really don't want to go on any hormonal birth control. So until we can agree I guess we will be using condoms which we both hate. I'm hoping that he will give in and just get a V.
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We're not done, so nothing permanent yet. When we are done, dh volunteered to get a vasectomy, he doesn't want me going through surgery. I need to talk to my midwife about birth control, I really don't want hormonal birth control because it makes me feel and act crazy. We hate condoms but that might be what we go with for a while. We had been doing pull out, which worked for us but I don't want to do that again and risk getting pregnant too soon. So, no idea what we're doing yet.
we aren't done yet so nothing permanent. i asked dh what kind of BC he wants to use but he said he doesn't care/doesn't matter. it took 3 years to get pregnant this time. i think we'll use pull out method for awhile.
We are almost positively sure we are done, and my husband will get a vasectomy. We are going to give it some more time before he has it done, to be sure we are both done. So until then, we will use comdoms.
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I am currently on birth control pills. I use the mini pill since i am still pumping. As long as I take them like I should they work fine. We said we were done but honestly this last time was so traumatic that I feel so robbed of my experience. We have already discussed possibly having one more. So nothing permanent is being done right now. I may be back in another DDC eventually. We'll see. It would definitely not be until after Sammy's 3rd surgery when he is 2 1/2. So a couple years from now if we decide to go for it. My DH was suppose to have gotten a V after our 3rd one but he reneged after the baby got here. I knew he would when I kept trying to make him an appt while I was pregnant and he kept procrastinating and making excuses. No idea what we'll do when we know for sure we are done...