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  #1  
April 27th, 2009, 04:22 PM
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Please...if you've never seen anencephaly pictures, don't look. If you want to see a true angel...who is and always be the most innocent of the innocents, please look at our son, Jonah Michael. He was born 4/26 at 9:10 in the morning.

He is without a doubt the most beautiful gift I could give our dear Marshall. I am so lost for words that only my children on earth can seem to make sense of any of it.

Without further ado, here are some pictures of our dearest newest angel, Jonah Michael Schaeffer.











We spent time holding him, singing to him, and just talking to him. I held him like a newborn, walking around the room, packing as if I was packing up to leave with him, when my husband had to stop me and remind me that that this little guy wasn't ours to keep forever. I had to let the nurses take him and prepare him for his funeral. Then I put him on my shoulder, pat his little butt, and bounced him as if to rock him to a peaceful sleep. I laid him in his basket, curled up next to it, and took our last nap together.

I don't know how I'm going to deal with this loss. I was finally looking toward the future after losing Marshall. Now what? Where do I go? I understand that God is big enough to take my anger, but is He worth it right now? He has two of my best pieces of work up there, because somehow they couldn't make it here. I'm angry, sad, and torn.
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April 27th, 2009, 04:42 PM
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Heather, he is so beautiful, what an amazing ANGEL. You and your family are in my prayers.
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April 27th, 2009, 04:46 PM
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Thank-you for sharing the pictures of your beautiful angel, Heather. I love the picture of Jonah with your wedding rings. The symbolism is beautiful.
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April 27th, 2009, 05:03 PM
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Jonah is beautiful. You have 2 very special little boys waiting for you in Heaven someday. They will be the most amazing guardian angels to your next miracle.
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April 27th, 2009, 05:22 PM
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April 27th, 2009, 05:56 PM
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Oh heather! Jonah was beautiful! What a sweet little boy. Can I ask how much he weighed? I'm so so sorry hun. I wish so much I could give you a huge irl hug
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April 27th, 2009, 06:58 PM
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Thank you for sharing your son Jonah with us, a very sweet little boy. I am so deeply sorry Heather!
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April 27th, 2009, 07:05 PM
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You and your family are in our prayers. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful angel with us.
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April 27th, 2009, 07:20 PM
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Heather, such a beautiful angel and so wonderful that he and Marshall have each other to look over their mommy. I have been and will continue to lift you up in prayer.
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April 27th, 2009, 07:24 PM
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Sometimes I really wish that this world could handle such a beautiful boy. It's unfair that we live in a place that is can't handle our beautiful babies.

He's just so beautiful.
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April 27th, 2009, 07:52 PM
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Oh my heavens, he is just so beautiful!!!! And those feet, oh I am a sucker for baby feet! Thank you so much for sharing with us.
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April 27th, 2009, 08:26 PM
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Dropping in from the Single mommies board.

Your little boy is very beautiful, such a sweet little angel. I'm also curious how much he weighed. Thank you so much for sharing with us and I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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April 27th, 2009, 08:43 PM
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Oh Heather, Jonah is absolutely beautiful. A perfect, precious Angel.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

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April 27th, 2009, 08:50 PM
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He's beautiful, Heather. I have no great words to share with you, only my love to send
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April 27th, 2009, 09:19 PM
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Oh Heather, he is such a beautiful little boy, just look at those little fingers. So tiny.
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April 27th, 2009, 09:35 PM
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He is beautiful, thank you for sharing your pictures and memories with us
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April 27th, 2009, 09:35 PM
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i have been lurking watching for updates on you... my heart absolutly aches for you. I have never seen anencephaly pictures but they didn't bug me at all. The only thing I see in the pictures is a very sweet little boy. He is so absoulty adorable. I wish you the best! I know it doesn't seem like it but you are blessed to have 2 sweet boys as guardian angels!
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April 27th, 2009, 11:24 PM
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heather he is so perfect hun, u are a very strong woman hun u and your family are most deffinatly in my thoughts and prayers right now
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April 28th, 2009, 02:00 AM
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hi im claire sister and she told me about losing your angel and i have been popping looking for updats and i have been thinking of you and your family, thank you for sharing your beautiful angel, i will continue to think of you
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April 28th, 2009, 04:28 AM
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He's beautiful hun xx
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