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May 3rd, 2009, 12:09 PM
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It's been a week. Really? This happened to us again? This is how I feel today. I took the kids to the beach because Joe got in real late from a trip to PA...and we played and enjoyed ourselves, and wrote names in the sand...(Calypso's ). But I gave birth to my second angel a week ago.

I have lost another child. :confuse d:
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May 3rd, 2009, 01:32 PM
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I can imagine it would feel really surreal, because my one angel feels so surreal. I think since they aren't with us it's hard to hold on to the fact that they really existed. I think there are parts of us that would rather it not have happened at all, too.

But Marshall and Jonah lived. And they are yours. Nothing not even death can take away the fact that you are their mother and you carried them. Your love was all they ever knew, and I know that they love you for it and are grateful for it.



I wish I knew of something that would take the hurt away.
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May 3rd, 2009, 01:36 PM
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oh Heather It's just so heartbreaking that you had to go through this pain again. It's going to feel like a shock for a long time. I'm still in shock for your loss.

I'm glad to hear you did enjoy yourselves at the beach though. It's good to get out and do things.
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May 3rd, 2009, 01:37 PM
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oh Heather It's just so heartbreaking that you had to go through this pain again. It's going to feel like a shock for a long time. I'm still in shock for your loss.

I'm glad to hear you did enjoy yourselves at the beach though. It's good to get out and do things.
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May 3rd, 2009, 01:54 PM
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I spend a lot of time asking God questions like yours. I'll let you know if I ever get an answer. I suspect I won't get one while I'm living on Earth
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May 3rd, 2009, 02:43 PM
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I know how you feel Rebecca. I remember our pastor discussing some possible reasons with us in a conversation once and he told us it's all right to ask....but that doesn't necessarily mean we'll get an answer. And if I was in Heather's situation it would be even worse...to have it all repeat. To have double the pain. It just has to be so terrible, Heather. I'm so sorry.
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May 3rd, 2009, 07:37 PM
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I can't imagine what you are going through. Glad you were able to get out and enjoy the kids at the beach.
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May 3rd, 2009, 08:49 PM
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I am glad you got out with the kids - how are they doing?

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May 4th, 2009, 01:33 AM
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aww heather i wish there was something we could do to help.
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May 4th, 2009, 05:31 AM
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Just wanted to send my to you.
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