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May 25th, 2009, 10:25 AM
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I talked to my cousin this morning. She lost her baby 2 weeks ago at 41 weeks. I wanted to go to the funeral, but there was no way I could. I've been on the other side of it...the one who lost a baby...but I've never been on this side of it. It's different on here...typing I mean. But hearing her voice, I wish I could have seen her in person, at least then I could have hugged her. I've been thinking about her so much since it happened, and it scares the heck out of me. My baby is so close to the age that my son was when we lost him, and in the back of my mind I think I've dubbed that the "safe zone" if that makes sense...but her baby was full term. I went into premature labor on Friday...they stopped the contrax but I'm on bed rest now. I just can't get rid of the dang dreams that she is born sleeping, they drive me insane, and the preterm labor really scared me. And hearing her voice on the phone really brought me back to losing Mason. I was crying so hard, I could barely get a word out, but I listened to her. I know the thing that really upset me was seeing pregnant women when I lost him...I almost feel guilty that my baby is OK.
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May 25th, 2009, 11:09 AM
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Oh honey. Don't feel guilty that your baby is okay. You've had one loss, you don't need to feel guilty about having a healthy baby now.

As for the dreams...yeah...I had those every night the last week I was pregnant with Patrick.

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May 25th, 2009, 01:39 PM
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its understandable hun dont feel bad

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May 25th, 2009, 08:19 PM
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You shouldn't at all feel guilty about your baby being fine.

I hope you're doing alright.
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