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May 31st, 2009, 04:32 PM
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We finally dtd yesterday, and all I could do was cry. It was a release, a reminder that I wasn't pregnant, and because he pulled out...well... I just can't explain it.
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May 31st, 2009, 07:44 PM
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May 31st, 2009, 09:12 PM
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I'm so sorry I cried after the first time we dtd too.
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June 1st, 2009, 12:52 AM
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June 1st, 2009, 11:48 AM
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i completely understand. you need that intimacy with your partner, but at the same time it is just a reminder that you aren't pregant anymore. And the birth control (whether geographical, barrier or chemical) is the reminder that I won't have a baby anytime soon. I know we don't have to tell you twice that almost everything in your life now will be bittersweet....but just know we are here for you. I'm so sorry you have to go through this heather. Its not fair.
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