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September 12th, 2009, 07:20 AM
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I don't know if it was getting upset during the meeting yesterday or what,but I am in a funk now.

I only lost .5 pound this week, and while I am happy it went down, it wasn't enough. I HAVE to weigh 150 pounds in Nov-Dec. I have to or I won;t pass my fitness test. If I don't pass that test I won't be sure of my future. I can't get pregnant again until I pass that test. So much rides on my stupid weight and I only lost half a pound.
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September 12th, 2009, 10:42 AM
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Why do you have to be a certain weight before TTC again? Do you have a condition that rides on that?
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September 12th, 2009, 11:02 AM
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No. I have to pass a fitness test, which includes push-ups, sit-ups and a mile and a half run. Those portions of the test I can pass no problem, but it also has a waist measurement, mine has to be about 35 for me to pass, which I think is just about impossible. But, if I get my BMI to be less than 25 I get full points for the abdominal circumference. At 150 pounds my BMI is 24.75.

I have been accused of using pregnancy to get out of taking the fitness test, which is NOT true. So if I get pregnant before the next test, it will confirm their suspicions. Even though it isn't true to begin with.

Also, since I am in a failing status I have to go to this horrid, pointless class very month...even during pregnancy. I don't want to have to do it anymore. So I need to pass the friggin test.
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September 12th, 2009, 11:58 AM
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Oh, so it is for your job? I get it now. I thought you had a health problem and that the doctors tried to tell you you HAVE to be a certain weight or something before TTC again. I gotcha now.

WTH, that sucks. Weight is frustrating.
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September 12th, 2009, 12:02 PM
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Yes it is for my job. Sometimes i iwsh I had decided not to stay in the military.
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