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September 13th, 2009, 08:07 AM
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every year we put a memorial in the local newspaper back home where she was born - we still have families there and I don't know it is just something I have done each year

this year my DH questioned why we were doing a memorial again this year (it is roughly $60) and I got so upset with him and said $60 a year for our daughter is the least we can do for her.

I was so upset - and hope I didn't go off on him so bad but it hurt me to have him question putting in Rebecca's memorial

did I over-react?
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September 13th, 2009, 11:15 AM
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no u didnt hun cause thats how i feel i mean u would have spent money on her present and maybe a party?? i would have been upset too
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September 13th, 2009, 12:09 PM
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It is so hard when our DH's don't understand that need to do SOMETHING. To awknowledge that she is your daughter and her birthday is here and SOMETHING.

We understand.

My DH always has a hard time with my buying gifts and donating them. But I need to do it. I can't just leave him with nothing on his birthday!
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September 13th, 2009, 03:37 PM
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You didn't over react. My dh is the same but was very good this year and did whatever I wanted on Jake's anniversary. But he has never initiated anything and would be fine doing nothing.
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September 13th, 2009, 04:28 PM
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I never thought about buying a gift and donating it in her memory...I may do that this year as well!

thanks ladies ((HUGS)) I knew I could count on you
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