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September 14th, 2009, 07:54 AM
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I am so sad to say that the baby I mentioned of Friday died. She passed away yesterday. I am so very sad for her mother.

And again, frustrated and angry that her loss is aknowledged and mine was not.

I do want to see if she will be having a service in the area, and see if I can go. We were not very close, but we like eachother. I know she is going to need support, and although our losses are very different, I have a better understanding of her pain than most of the other people here.

I sent her suprevisor information about NILMBTS. I hope she is able to use them and get some beuatiful pictures of her bay. I also gave her my phone number and e-mail if she needs someone.
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September 14th, 2009, 08:38 AM
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That is exactly the compassion that having a loss gives us.
I know it isn't easy... but look at you!
You're thinking about how she feels because you've worn those ugly shoes!!!!

I send you love and many, many kudos!!!!
Your angel isn't forgotten my love...he's welcoming others!

God bless and take care!
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September 14th, 2009, 09:03 AM
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Dawna said everything so well.

You are an amazing woman. And Colm is up in heaven giving that new baby a tour and welcoming him/her.
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September 14th, 2009, 10:10 AM
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Ugh, how terribly sad. I'll be praying for her, as I have been since I heard about it.
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September 16th, 2009, 04:54 AM
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Oh, that is so sad. It helps alot knowing someone IRL who has lost a baby too after you lose yours. I have a good friend IRL who lost a baby at 18 weeks and another at 40 weeks and that helped after I had Roald. I can still remember her shock when I called her in my hospital bed crying "HE'S DEAD! HE'S DEAD!"

I feel so terrible for this lady. And yeah...I would feel the same way. It really irritates me when only babies born alive are vaslidated as a human being. Well...if they aren't alive in the womb, how could they be born alive? Our babies lived, too.
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