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September 15th, 2009, 04:23 PM
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he posted tis on his facebook today

"I know you mean well, but..
Today at 12:48pm
I know you mean well, but please don't tell me you know how I feel, unless you yourself has lost a child. It's not the same as loosing a parent, or sibling, or friend. I know.

I know you mean well, but please don't remind me I have other children to love. I know this, and I do love them, but they do not replace the child I lost.

I know you mean well, but please don't tell me I'm still young and can have more children. Again, others will not replace the child I lost.

I know you mean well, but please don't tell me it's God's will. I don't believe it's God's will to take little saints back to heaven so early.

I know you mean well, but please don't tell me to get over it. Some days are better then others, I will laugh again, I will love again, but I'll never be quite the same again.

I know you mean well, and PLEASE tell me where I can reach out for help with people that know the pain I'm feeling.

I know you mean well, and PLEASE talk about my baby, who is as real to me as any of my children.

I know you mean well, and PLEASE continue to love and support me through all of this. "
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September 15th, 2009, 04:45 PM
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How terrible. We all know how they feel, unfortunately. Terrible.
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September 15th, 2009, 06:40 PM
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Oh Meghan, I post this kind of stuff to my Facebook all the time! In my mind, I think I'm spreading awareness and if only ONE person takes the time to read this kind of stuff, my job is done.

We all know too well this feeling.
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September 16th, 2009, 01:24 AM
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September 16th, 2009, 05:17 AM
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Awww...
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September 16th, 2009, 10:00 AM
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That just brought tears to my eyes. I think I'm going to steal it.
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September 16th, 2009, 07:55 PM
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I have read that before as well

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