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October 21st, 2009, 08:32 AM
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So I guess my friends and family think since it has been 2 years now and I expect them to remember (fam especially since they were THERE). Of course I expect them to remember and I expect them to honor his life and mention him once in a blue moon ESPECIALLY on his Angelversary. I had 1 friend say something to me **hugs** to her.

My sister said something that pissed me off on the 19th.
She said "Everbody doesn't write that down on their calendar." When I mentioned it being his angelversary.

I was appalled and shocked my own sister would say that to me. Ugh, yeah, well don't you know your other nephew and niece's birthday???

Sorry to complain but I am just so mad that people don't feel it is worth his memory and life to remember one day out of the year FOR HIM.
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October 21st, 2009, 09:04 AM
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((hugs))) I can't believe it has been 2 years already. I remember the day you posted about your loss like it was yesterday
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October 21st, 2009, 09:06 AM
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I'm so sorry honey. I got that too. There were some, when I talked about Cora's 3rd birthday, who thought it was odd that I did something to remember. I was really upset about that. OF COURSE I'm going to do something to honor my baby! Having 2 more babies doesn't erase that!



I'm sorry your sister said that. It would be so much easier if people just got it.
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October 21st, 2009, 09:38 AM
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Thanks! I guess people TRUELY do not understand. God Forbid something horrible happened to here. Makes me want to be just as ignorant and rude.
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October 21st, 2009, 09:48 AM
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I'm sorry ppl just don't understand.
It's not like we're asking for them to do something spectacular...just acknowledge for Pete's sake!!!

Happy 2nd angelversary, Dominic...and lotsa hugs for Mommy!!!!
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October 21st, 2009, 12:01 PM
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Happy 2nd Angelversary, Dominic.

I'm sorry they say things like that. I'm sure 2 years from now my family is going to be the same way. They just don't understand that this always be with us no matter how many years or months will pass.

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