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November 11th, 2009, 07:57 AM
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November 11th, 2009, 09:03 AM
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I just found out yesterday that Logans headstone was FINALLY put up. (it's 4 hours away). It's very odd. I felt so relieved that it was finally done, but then it's like...now what? What else can I do for him, ya know? I don't know. Kind of down about it today, but other than that, I'm okay I guess. The more things change, the more they stay the same, right?

*sigh*

how is everyone else. How are YOU?
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November 11th, 2009, 09:41 AM
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I'm dreading buying the rest of the baby stuff for fear something will go wrong. I still have the tags on all of his clothes and receipts to everything I've purchased. I want to get excited, but I'm so nervous and scared something will go wrong or something will happen and I'll have to birth a dead baby again.
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November 11th, 2009, 10:39 AM
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I'm feeling ... "meh."

Tired as all hell because I got only 4 hours of sleep last night (yep, I saw 2:30 a.m. tick away minute by minute to 5:10 a.m., when my stupid alarm went off anyway) ...

Happy that I got to see Pippi on the ultrasound yesterday (and even happier that she's doing a-ok).

Stressed and nervous about my next perinatologist appointment on Friday (what else is new), and stressed that stress, my cold, and lack of sleep is all causing my blood glucose levels to go up ...

I'll bet you're sorry you asked (lol).
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November 11th, 2009, 12:07 PM
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I'm mixed. Since I've started my blog and actually started writing down all those feelings I've had pent up, it's kind of like I the dam has burst and it's all flooding out and I've been crying a lot the past couple days.

I'm getting ready to scrapbook Cora's star certificate from her birthday and the pictures my friends took at Jenny Lake.

I wish I had pictures of Cora to scrap for her birthday!!
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November 11th, 2009, 12:24 PM
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I'm sad...Today it's been 4 weeks since Ella was born...Saturday it will be a month...I've been trying to keep myself busy the last few days...Friday, Saturday and Sunday I'm helping to pack up my grandparents house....My grandma is in a nursing home and isn't expected to live long...It's going to be a hard thing to do, esp on the 14th.
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November 11th, 2009, 12:45 PM
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November 11th, 2009, 01:09 PM
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And Claire ... how are YOU doing? Do share with us
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November 11th, 2009, 02:04 PM
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im doin ok feeling quite happy at the mo,

im happy for my friend found out she is pregnant today (the one who lost a baby at 17 weeks to a car crash) in fact 3 of my firnds are pregnant im hoping its not contagious
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November 11th, 2009, 02:46 PM
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I'm doing pretty good, I'm on new happy pills that are finally working right. DH and I have already decided that we're going to stay on bc for a year and then ttc for #3 since cerclage placement is optimal within 2 years after birth due to scar issue, etc that strengthens the cervix.

Kaden has colic issues, or did, he's been better the last few days. He doesn't hardly sleep during the day though, which means hours upon hours of screaming because you can only keep him entertained for 30 mins. tops, usually not that long. But he has started sleeping through the night pretty much.

I'm going back for BLET in January, so at least I'll have something to distract me.

I don't really get to get out of the house much, maybe once a week (other than the gm). So I stay really bored and stressed. Plus now DH and my parents are into it, so I have that drama to deal with on both sides.

Keegan's 1st b-day is coming up on the 26th, so I'm hoping it will be semi-nice that day so we can do something for him. It was snowing that time last year, so IDK.
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November 11th, 2009, 05:38 PM
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im doin ok feeling quite happy at the mo,

im happy for my friend found out she is pregnant today (the one who lost a baby at 17 weeks to a car crash) in fact 3 of my firnds are pregnant im hoping its not contagious
How wonderful for your friend! Now don't drink the water
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November 11th, 2009, 08:02 PM
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For the first time since having Evan I had a really good day!!!! It felt so good to laugh and enjoy my day but at the same time I felt guilty for wanting to be happy and laugh and enjoy life when my Evan never got a chance to.

Love ya all

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November 12th, 2009, 10:31 AM
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I was ok for the past couple of days, but I'm back to feeling sad and angry today since it's the 4 month anniversary.
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