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I have been trying to get back to you guys and was having a hard time with my password but i am all set now. It has been 7 months since we lost our Twin Angel boys. I still feel shocked that this has all happened. I am currently pregnant and i am 21 weeks, and i am terrified. we lost the boys at 22 weeks so now i feel like if i can get through the next couple of weeks i will be OK. I am so sad and miss them so much and hope that i did not do this all to soon. but i am 37 and could not wait to be a mom. I miss them so much and an having a hard time getting excited about this again. we did find out we are having another boy, Don't get me wrong i am very excited. just scared. So many emotions and on a roller coaster. well thanks for listening.
That's wonderful news! Congrats. I don't think pregnancy is ever the same after a loss. You are excited (even if you don't realize it), but you're cautious too. We try our best to protect ourselves from that pain again. Good luck and I hope you have a wonderful, healthy pregnancy!
Congrats on your new pregnancy.
Getting to the point in your new pregnancy where you lost your other one is really hard. I remember I was a complete mess that week. I hope it gets easier for you emotionally. I got pregnant again right away after we lost Eli at 26 weeks (I got pregnant less than 3 months after we had him) and this baby is due on Eli's birthday in 17 days. It's really bittersweet because I am excited to meet this new baby and cuddle him and be mommy to him in the way I should be able to be but at the same time I still really miss Eli.
Congratulations! I am just a couple weeks ahead of you, due Nov 28th. It's been difficult for me too. My son passed at 36 weeks so I will be on edge until the end I think. I start getting excited and then I pull back.
I hope you start feeling better soon. I found that after 20 weeks time started to seem like it was going by a little faster so maybe that will happen for you too!