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January 1st, 2011, 01:18 PM
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We're admitting a little baby - Noah - born a week after our little Noah. I don't want to even look at him, but I have to. Why does this little one bother me more, just because he has his name? I have to set up his room, pick out blankets, diapers, everything they will need for him. All I can think is Noah, Noah, Noah.

If I'm going to work in pediatrics, I need to get over this. But right now, I just want to cry.
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January 1st, 2011, 04:45 PM
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It's probably the name, and the close birthdates. Every time you hear or say the name you think about what you should have had. This first experience with a baby of the same name will be the hardest. Any time you come across a Noah again you'll have been through it before and survived it. Until then, just let yourself cry when you can.

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January 2nd, 2011, 01:53 AM
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im so sorry hun, even now hearing someone say jessica out loud is a kick in the heart. spesh if i was not expecting it.
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January 2nd, 2011, 07:29 PM
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I'm sorry Amanda, it sounds very tough. I do believe it will get easier for you with time.
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