Log In Sign Up

I have a question?


Forum: Stillbirth

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Stillbirth LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
March 17th, 2011, 10:55 PM
Newbie
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 8
So my Gavyn has been gone for a little over 6 months now. In January my ex, Gavyn's father, and I broke up. Are there any other mothers on here that aren't with their angel's father anymore? I just feel so guilty when I think about the possibility of meeting someone new and having a family with them. I'm scared that the new guy won't be able to handle the idea of Gavyn or be able to understand exactly what i'm going through. I'm afraid that I am betraying Gavyn by not having children with his father. Is there anyone else in my shoes?
Reply With Quote
  #2  
March 18th, 2011, 01:57 AM
Mom 2 Avery's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Houston, TX
Posts: 1,611
Send a message via MSN to Mom 2 Avery Send a message via Yahoo to Mom 2 Avery
Our angels have the same birthday...well, mine was in 2005...

Hi! I'm Dawna and was pregnant in 2005 as a single mother. I'm still single -
I've remained friends with her dad (and we did try dating again but that's a
whole different story!)

I'm very sorry you're having to deal with all this other stuff while adjusting to life
with an angel instead of a baby...it's just not fair!

I'm here if you need anything!!!
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #3  
March 18th, 2011, 07:23 AM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2009
Posts: 5,238
I am not with Daniel's father anymore either. I think I have male friends that understand what I felt more than his father ever did... It won't be betraying Gavyn to be happy - I'm sure that is what he would want
__________________

Thank you Katie (.:Shortcake:.) for my beautiful siggy!!

Reply With Quote
  #4  
March 18th, 2011, 07:24 AM
claire1979's Avatar mummy to a special angel
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: huddersfield, england
Posts: 33,629
Send a message via MSN to claire1979
just wanted to send u some hugs (()) im still with jessicas dad but can understand why u wanted to ask the question, hope u get some answers hun x
__________________




Reply With Quote
  #5  
March 18th, 2011, 08:07 AM
austinmommy3's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 2,056
Makenzie's father and I divorced years ago, we did have a rainbow baby two years before we divorced. My SO and I have been together for quite sometime and I now have three rainbow babies total. He gets as emotional as I do before, during, and after her anniversary. She is buried in Louisiana and we live in Texas. Every holiday we go back for and on her anniversary we go to her grave. His parents fly down from Philly for her anniversary just as they do for the other three children's b-days. Chris says he can't begin to fathom the pain of losing a child and can't imagine how I was able to carry on. His entire family is that way. I receive cards from all his brothers and their families remembering her anniversary.There are many wonderful men out there who will understand, and your sweet son will never feel betrayed because you will always be his mother and always have undying love for him.
__________________








Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:12 AM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0