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May 2nd, 2011, 11:29 PM
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how are you ladies, may already?

brittanie hope yesterday was gentle x

may brings the build up stage! it suddenly hit me that its 6 weeks till jessica's 6th year angelversay its just flying by it only feels like 5 mins ago that i was lighting lanturns for her 5th angelversary and here i am 6 weeks from her 6th!
time is not a healer while of course im in a good place with grief and smiling and being happy it does not heal the pain in my heart that takes over my life in may and june it hurts more every year.
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May 3rd, 2011, 08:52 AM
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Yesterday was a very good day. Her actual birthday usually ends up being. May 1st, the day we found out she died, sucks. But her birthday is usually nice.

And I feel you about the build up stage. That's where I was all April. I feel like I'm back to myself again. It's sort of a relief it's over.

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May 3rd, 2011, 10:55 AM
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Yep I am in the middle of the build up stage, Makenzie's is May 18th.
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May 3rd, 2011, 05:55 PM
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My due date is coming up. It happens to be Mother's Day. It's gone by so fast. Seems like it was just yesterday.
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May 3rd, 2011, 09:17 PM
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My due date is coming up. It happens to be Mother's Day. It's gone by so fast. Seems like it was just yesterday.
My due date with Cora was on Mother's Day. Kinda makes Mother's Day suck, even if you've got other kids.
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May 4th, 2011, 07:38 PM
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I've got a while until Mary's due date; July 4. I don't know if it's Mother's Day coming up or if being back at work is worse than I'm realizing or what but today has been horrible! I just feel bad, bad, bad. Hopefully tomorrow will be better.
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May 4th, 2011, 07:50 PM
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Stressed. Grant's birthday was Sunday and his party is Saturday, we're having 40 adults and 10 toddlers in my house. And of course I can't get it out of my head that I should be throwing a 1st birthday party for TRIPLETS. Everybody is understanding that I am always going to be sad for Ethan, but it's like Baby B and Baby C never existed.
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May 4th, 2011, 08:44 PM
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Stressed. Grant's birthday was Sunday and his party is Saturday, we're having 40 adults and 10 toddlers in my house. And of course I can't get it out of my head that I should be throwing a 1st birthday party for TRIPLETS. Everybody is understanding that I am always going to be sad for Ethan, but it's like Baby B and Baby C never existed.
I didn't get any acknowledgement from my family on Cora's birthday.


I wish it could have been 40 adults and 12 toddlers at your house!
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May 5th, 2011, 10:35 AM
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Stressed. Im only 2 weeks away from my loss point with Robert. Ugh. I just want Abby here alive. I also can't decide if I'm better to take my maternity leave staring now or if being home will only make my anxiety worse.
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May 6th, 2011, 04:44 PM
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Stressed. Im only 2 weeks away from my loss point with Robert. Ugh. I just want Abby here alive. I also can't decide if I'm better to take my maternity leave staring now or if being home will only make my anxiety worse.
Not looking forward to that point in pregnancy at all. I hit 30 weeks and the real anxiety starts and just gets worse from there until birth.

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May 7th, 2011, 01:03 AM
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I am in my building up stage too. Remembering how i thought I felt him moving on Mother's Day and realizing now that it was gas or muscle spasm. I realized for sure ont eh Friday before Mother's Dat that I hadn't felt him move. I posted about hating my anterior placenta and not feeling him move much. On Sunday I thought I felt him and I patted my belly and said, "Thank you baby" But it was not true. He really was dead. Only 6 days until the horrible day we found he was gone.

THis year seems worse. Maybe because I am so far from my family now?
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