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I'm sorry it's so hard I didn't have the money to bury my girls, so they were cremated by the hospital and their ashes spread in the baby memorial area there. I now live across the country, so I cannot visit them. I tried to place a memorial spot in a cemetery where I used to live, but didn't get it paid off before I had to move, and then I needed the money for the move. I'm hoping to get together enough money to do it where I live now by their next birthday For now I have a spot on my back yard dedicated. I made 2 stepping stoned and purchased a garden angel. It all sits under a tree where I have 2 bird feeders. I love sitting out there
I think that would be very difficult. Matthew was cremated and we have his ashes in an urn here- I didn't want to have a service/burial at the time. I don't think Rebecca would think you are neglecting her or anything bad at all- she knows that you think of her often and you care about her. Can your husband take your son if he wants to go until you are ready to go?
Annalise is hoping to be a big sister on June 28, 2014. Forever missing her big brother, Matthew, stillborn on July 1, 2010.
Jen, I'm sure that your sweet Rebecca knows how much you love her. Right after Carter's death, going to the cemetary brought me some comfort, butI went on Memorial Day and I was shocked at how bitter it made me feel, I haven't been back since. We are about a 1/2 drive. We still have to have the permanent marker placed, and I keep avoiding it.
DD Brooklynn 8-4-01
DD Libby 6-18-04
DS Gavin 8-20-08
DS Carter born still 3-2-11 (20 weeks)
It's a GIRL!!! EDD 3-6-12