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June 25th, 2014, 10:52 AM
rachelc0's Avatar 2 sons, 3 angel babies
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two weeks ago we lost our son. he was a full term stillborn at 39wks, 6days and we had no idea until i went into the hospital, in labor. we have two older sons and it was hard explaining to them that the brother they thought we were bringing home, wasn't coming home.

we met with the doctor today to go over test results he got back on testing from the placenta. the doctor keeps saying i need to be angry and if i don't get anger out, i will never heal. i'm just not an angry person. not with him or the hospital. not with DH. i suppose the only one i am a little mad at would be God. why he would let me carry a baby for nine months just to take him away.
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July 12th, 2014, 02:58 PM
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I guess we'll never find out. Sorry for your loss. Today my son Eric Jason would've been 5 years old. He was stillborn at 38 weeks, we never got any conclusive result as to the reason of why he was stillborn.
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September 18th, 2014, 06:12 PM
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You do not need to get anger out. If it doesn't come naturally, there's no need to force it. I'm sorry for your loss =(
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