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  #1  
September 5th, 2007, 09:41 PM
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Tomorrow, Its been 2 long but fast years I can not believe how the time flies. And some days it hurts as much as the moment that I knew he was gone I miss him so much!!!!! Wish I could hold him one more time............soon!

I'm sorry I don't post here much but who better to understand my sorrow than yall!!!
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Missing our Angel: Aries Isaiah 09/06/05 Carried you for only 24wks1d but in Mommy's heart FOREVER

To my Aries:
The time we had with you was brief,
We had to say good-bye,
Now angels kiss your little face,
And sing your lullaby.

Someday again, we'll be with you,
To cherish all those things,
Until that day it helps to know,
You're safe in angels wings.





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September 6th, 2007, 12:13 PM
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(((((hugs))))) Raquel. I know how much you miss him.


Donna
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September 6th, 2007, 01:44 PM
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i know your pain all too well too hun you are in my thoughts and prayers.....im just so sad right now....please take care and lots of love x
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September 9th, 2007, 10:13 PM
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Thanks, Ladies! I made it through but I was really hurt, NO ONE other than my DH and myself even remembered his day I know its not the same type of hurt for everyone else as it was for us but it hurt so much to not even have the grandparents remember It felt like he wasn't important enough to remember
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Raquel Mom to The "A" Team: Anthony, almost 10yrs old (OMG double digits!!!!), Alexis, 8, Aiden, 5
Missing our Angel: Aries Isaiah 09/06/05 Carried you for only 24wks1d but in Mommy's heart FOREVER

To my Aries:
The time we had with you was brief,
We had to say good-bye,
Now angels kiss your little face,
And sing your lullaby.

Someday again, we'll be with you,
To cherish all those things,
Until that day it helps to know,
You're safe in angels wings.





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September 10th, 2007, 06:34 AM
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You can always come here and we'll share stories!!!

I called my best friend on Avery's 2nd angelversary...
She says, "Oh, yeah, that's right..."
Needless to say, I was crushed!!! I know I won't be able to talk with her about the baby again.

But, I know I have my JM mommies that will listen!

I'm here if you need to talk!
Hugs from Houston!!!
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September 10th, 2007, 12:17 PM
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Thank you so much, Dawna!!!! You gals on here have been my saving grace!!! I don't know what I would of done from the begining till now without JM, I don't have anyone to talk to then or now that understood what I was feeling or even felt comfortable talking about Aries. I miss him so much (I'm even crying as I type) and I feel so horrible like he is some taboo not to ever be mentioned with other people and all I want to do is scream that he is MY SON!!!! HE'S GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN AND IS MISSED SOOOOOOO MUCH but there's no one to listen
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Raquel Mom to The "A" Team: Anthony, almost 10yrs old (OMG double digits!!!!), Alexis, 8, Aiden, 5
Missing our Angel: Aries Isaiah 09/06/05 Carried you for only 24wks1d but in Mommy's heart FOREVER

To my Aries:
The time we had with you was brief,
We had to say good-bye,
Now angels kiss your little face,
And sing your lullaby.

Someday again, we'll be with you,
To cherish all those things,
Until that day it helps to know,
You're safe in angels wings.





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September 10th, 2007, 12:49 PM
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I'm so sorry you're crying over stupid people.
I won't even call them ignorant...they're just plain stupid!!!

You son will never be forgotten...he has a place in your heart.
And nobody will ever take that from you!!!

I'm sorry he couldn't be in your lap right now (too old for arms, huh?)
But I believe with all my heart that God has plans...
We just don't know what they are!!!

I'm here if you need me!
Dawna
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September 10th, 2007, 07:45 PM
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I know and I really do try to remind myself that. I really do think that God sent him to me to make me love more and appreciate more and not to take too many things for granted. But it still does hurt so much to know I had to lose my son in the process of all of this "Learning"
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Raquel Mom to The "A" Team: Anthony, almost 10yrs old (OMG double digits!!!!), Alexis, 8, Aiden, 5
Missing our Angel: Aries Isaiah 09/06/05 Carried you for only 24wks1d but in Mommy's heart FOREVER

To my Aries:
The time we had with you was brief,
We had to say good-bye,
Now angels kiss your little face,
And sing your lullaby.

Someday again, we'll be with you,
To cherish all those things,
Until that day it helps to know,
You're safe in angels wings.





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September 12th, 2007, 03:35 PM
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I'm kind of in-your-face about Cora, I don't let people forget, you know? Even though I know my dad would rather not talk about her (like he doesn't talk about my stillborn sister), I do anyway.

There's a baby at my church who is 3 weeks younger than Cora would have been. It hurts me to look at him.


It's hard to imagine what they would be doing and what they would look like, isn't it? I broke down and had "one of those days" yesterday, and I could tell that even DH was uncomfortable with it. But he worries that I'll fall into a depression (why would I if I haven't yet?). It was hard to see that reaction when all I needed was him to tell me it was okay to cry.


So, it's okay to cry for your Aries. You love him, and that means you miss him, and it's not going to go away. And because you love him and miss him, he lives on.

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September 14th, 2007, 07:24 PM
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I'm pretty in your face too. If people forget, I remind them. I'm sorry for your loss again...

I just love JM. You can always come here for comfort, sympathy, understanding and a cyber-shoulder to cry on...
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