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November 19th, 2007, 07:12 PM
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I visited my friends this past weekend. I got to see all kinds of babies ranging from 3 months to 2 years. It made me miss my baby even more. Today is his one month angelversary. I was ok today. I am sitting here dwelling on it now. I think I am moving to a different part of grieveing because I feel like I should have done something. As much as my rational mind knows better, I feel like him passing away is my fault. I feel like I should have done the repeat c/s that my OB recommended (for having previous c/s) and he might be here with me. It makes me wonder if me fighting for my VBAC made me so blind that I put him in harm. My LMP put my EDD at Oct 3, u/s EDD was Oct 12 and he was born Oct 19. The Doctors said he was a little over 40 weeks gest by whatever they look at after he was born. I keep playing it over and over in my mind and I am so mad at myself.

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November 20th, 2007, 12:53 AM
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hun.....i went through this too blaming myself....i mean who else is there to blame....i needed someone to blame and i was the one i came up with...no matter how i hard i tried. but you know what hunnie i realised its part of the grieving process....it may take a while and hurt like hell...but this will pass pregnancy and labour is something beyond our control..as i have soon rashionalised with this pregnancy no matter what i do nothing is gonna stop something happening.....and its something that has taken the enjoyment of my last pregnancy......its all part of the grieving process...it will become easier hun i promise although you will never stop feeling the ache you feel for the need of your son.....you will smile proudly for little domonic......everyone grieves diffenrently and for different amount of time its still so raw hun be gentle on your self.....please take care babe...love claire

sleep tight dont let the bed bugs bite domonic happy one month angelversary sweetheart...pass on a kiss to jessica from me x x x x
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