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January 11th, 2008, 06:04 AM
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How are you feeling? Are you still feeling detached?
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January 11th, 2008, 07:53 AM
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hey hun to be honest i dont know how i feel im so scared of losin bump.....of course i love him/her with all my heart just dont wanna get too close in case it happens again i have good days and bad days this week is a bad week cause im at the same stage as when i lost jessica.....trying to be positive thinking of names and talking about how its gonna be when it comes ...but i feel bad cause i darent buy anything for her/him..just wanna go to sleep till april....and how are you hun?
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January 11th, 2008, 05:02 PM
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I am ok. I have "moved on" so to speak. I still get upset every now and then. I am trying to look towards the future. I can't wait to TTC but I am still healing both emotionally and physically. Alyssa is giving me a rough time now and it is making question whether or not I even want more kids. Maybe when she is older. I want to start TTC in April, but I might have to push it back if her behavior isn't improving. I think about him everyday, but I no longer sob uncontrolably. I consider myself very spiritual and I totally believe Dominic was sent here for a reason, what? I will probably never know. He in a way helped my family look past all the B/S in our lives and start treating each other better (mostly my family, not DHs). I also think that I have some friends that don't particular care much for their children, it made them realize how LUCKY they are not to have something like this happen to them. He touched so many people and I am so proud of him. He is a brave soul and I am so blessed he picked me as his mommy.

I still have alot of guilt about the circumstances of his death and I whole heartedly believe that my stubborness killed him. I also believe that it was meant to happen. I have to live with that for the rest of my life. I stood up for something I believed in (VBACs) and this is what I get. Makes you not want to stand up for anythin, KWIM?


I can't imagine what your week has been like. Did you rent a doppler so you can check on bump anytime you desire? I think I am going to do that with my next pregnancy if I ever get there. **hugs** for you. It will pass and before you know it, your baby will be here. <3
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January 11th, 2008, 09:06 PM
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As one who has successfully gone through it...Claire, I fully believe that you will have time to become "attached" later. Keep yourself calm, and take one day at a time.

You're doing wonderfully. You're a fabulous person.


And LeAnn: I feel much the same way about Cora. I don't know what she was sent here for, really, but I do know that she taught me a lot while she was here, and in leaving so early.

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