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Oh. I had no idea it was financial. I assumed it was due to being a VBAC. My apologies. Good luck figuring out what to do. I have no advice about hospitals.
Thanks, yeah, we tried to find a way to make it work. We just can't The end of the year brings birthdays, the holidays. I'm so glad this baby is due in May because we get a break from the big birthday rush of our kids! My husband and middle sons birthday are a week apart. Then my oldest is a week and a half after Christmas. I keep hoping a money tree will sprout one day in my yard haha.
I'm hoping the VBAC won't be an issue since my first was my c-section. My other two were HBAC's. So I've proven I can deliver vaginally. But I won't know for sure what they say till I'm there :/
Please do your research. If you do not want a cesarean, fight them. You hire them, not the other way around. They owe you respect. I personally know how hard it is to fight with hospital staff, but in the end - they have to listen to you. It's your body and your baby. And if you know what you're talking about, they'll be more apt to hear you out and even agree. Good luck to you. My 3rd baby was my last hospital baby, so I don't really know how things have changed. Hopefully it's been for the better!
I have no intentions of having a c-section, period. I'm well informed in my choice. I am just hoping this office won't push it so I don't have to go elsewhere to take my care. If that is what happens, so be it. But nobody will make me do something I don't want to do, again.