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October 16th, 2013, 04:37 PM
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I've been MIA, but hopefully am starting to try feel comfortable to jump in and enjoy this pregnancy. I'm nearing that ever so scary 12 week point. I used to find so much comfort in reaching 12 weeks, but no more. I lost my last baby at 17 weeks along, and had no clue anything was wrong. I had 14 ultrasounds looking at that sweet baby grow, and then all of a sudden...nothing, no heartbeat.
I am living in fear now, I am pregnant with twins this time. I have 3 healthy children, but that last loss is really messing with my mind. I worry at every weekly appointment and ultrasound. My dr is taking really good care of me, so I do feel we are doing as much as we can, but I still can't shake the worry. Is anyone else here dealing with the same feelings? How are you able to push those worries aside and enjoy your pregnancy? Have you announced your pregnancy yet? (I have not)

Also the morning/all day sickness is reassuring, but also keeping me feeling so bad that I seem to stay depressed that I can't be more of a mother to my other children...I just feel so screwed up in the head. lol
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October 16th, 2013, 04:45 PM
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Congrats on your Twins and welcome
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October 16th, 2013, 05:05 PM
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I don't have any advice except hang in there! Every day that passes is a blessing
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October 16th, 2013, 07:11 PM
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I can't imagine how you are feeling. I will keep you in my t&p! One day at a time
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October 16th, 2013, 07:38 PM
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So sorry for your loss! You're not crazy. I'm sure I speak for the whole group when I say we all worry every day!
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October 16th, 2013, 09:13 PM
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I have bad morning sickness too and I feel like I am not doing enough fun things with DD but I feel depressed and miserable like its scary to leave my toilets, sounds sad but it is a real fear. I hope things get easier and we are here to talk if u need us =] ����
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October 16th, 2013, 09:18 PM
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Pregnancy after a loss is always so hard, you worry about every thing way more than you normally would. but congrats on the twins and welcome to the group
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October 17th, 2013, 04:44 PM
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Thanks all, I had another appointment today with ultrasound, and things looked great. So good I don't have to go back until Oct 30th, I had been going weekly. I am being referred to a high risk dr, but I know they are just doing everything they can to keep us healthy.
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October 17th, 2013, 04:50 PM
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So sorry for your loss, hut CONGRATS on twins! I had a 10 week loss, and have been livong in fear this whole pregnancy. I just try and keep busy, and cherish every time I get to see baby.. which is not often yet.
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October 17th, 2013, 05:23 PM
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I worry as well. This pregnancy is the furtherest I have gotten in pregnancy since my DS but I am still stressing out. I have told my support system but I would like to wait until Christmas time to tell everyone else. Congratulations on twins and welcome to the group!
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October 17th, 2013, 10:34 PM
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I am so sorry for your previous loss! But congratulations on your twins!! I can only imagine how hard the worrying can be!
I will keep you in my prayers that everything stays on a healthy path for you and your little ones.
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