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November 14th, 2013, 12:58 PM
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Oh my goodness, I am so sorry! I don't feel like I have enough words to comfort you but I am thinking of you and praying for you xo
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November 14th, 2013, 02:14 PM
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I'm so so sorry.. You're in my prayers..
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November 14th, 2013, 05:52 PM
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I know saying sorry won't really help you, but just know there are a lot if people thinking and praying for you. Stay strong Hun.
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November 14th, 2013, 09:59 PM
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My wonderful husband passed away this morning. Thank goodness for places like Hospice, he hated staying in the cancer center. They let us have a party last night with him, and even though he couldn't talk to us he was awake enough to nod his head and even laughed once. Was the most awesome night ever!! I miss him so much, this is not fair.
I can't tell you how much your kind words mean, thank you. They've helped more than you can know.
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November 14th, 2013, 10:24 PM
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My wonderful husband passed away this morning. Thank goodness for places like Hospice, he hated staying in the cancer center. They let us have a party last night with him, and even though he couldn't talk to us he was awake enough to nod his head and even laughed once. Was the most awesome night ever!! I miss him so much, this is not fair.
I can't tell you how much your kind words mean, thank you. They've helped more than you can know.
Words cannot express how sorry I am for what you and your children and loved ones are going through. I am glad that you were able to have a final celebration with him and that you were able to make such wonderful memories during the event. I wish there was something I could say to ease your pain but please know that we are all thinking of you and praying for you!
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November 15th, 2013, 03:51 AM
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My heart is just breaking for you. May you find peace and comfort during this difficult time. Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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November 15th, 2013, 04:17 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss Brandy. Life is not fair many times. I am sending you and your daughters much love.
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November 15th, 2013, 05:39 AM
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I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband. Our family will be praying for yours in a very special way. I know it is not fair but I am sure that your husband must have been very special to be taken so soon. love and prayers.
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November 15th, 2013, 06:51 AM
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I am so, so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.
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November 15th, 2013, 07:39 AM
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Oh sweetie...I am SO SO SORRY for your loss. I am glad u all had one last time to celebrate his life and your love ♥♥♥ Keeping you all held up in prayer and sending lots of love.
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November 15th, 2013, 09:19 AM
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That is such a rotten thing to have to go through I'm so sorry and I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
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November 15th, 2013, 10:09 AM
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What a great way to say goodbye...
I'm thinking of you and your family. Please take care of yourself and stick around, hope we can provide you some comfort and laughs in the next few months.
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November 15th, 2013, 10:11 AM
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Oh sweetie, I can't imagine what you are through right now. Wish I could reach out to you and give you a hug. Praying that you are comforted by knowing he is in a happy place and watching over you, the girls and baby. Please know we all are hear to listen. Keep strong momma, he's rooting for you up there. Prayers for all of you.
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November 15th, 2013, 10:27 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. That is just so unfair I'm glad you had a party for him. We will be praying for you and your family. Words cannot truly express how sorry I am.
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November 15th, 2013, 02:15 PM
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My heart breaks reading this, but I believe he left you with the sweetest parting gift. Prayers for you and your family in this tough time .
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November 15th, 2013, 06:06 PM
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I am so very sorry
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November 15th, 2013, 09:33 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss
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November 16th, 2013, 06:48 PM
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I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss.. prayers for comfort and peace during this terrible time..
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November 17th, 2013, 09:03 AM
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My sincere condolences go out to you and your family. It's so sad to hear that your husband passed away, but I pray you find comfort in knowing that he is no longer suffering. I'm sure you have many memories of him and will pass on his beautiful legacy to the tiny miracle you are carrying. You are in my prayers Hun.
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November 17th, 2013, 05:14 PM
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I haven't been on in a while because I'm due late may and float back and forth but I wanted to say that I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry- it's an unimaginable situation.
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