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November 13th, 2013, 09:16 AM
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We found out last week that my husbands ALL had relapsed again. His drs all agreed that it was not going to be beneficial to put him thru more chemo and he can't have any more radiation. I don't know how I'm going to do this without him. I'm trying so hard to stay calm, I'm scared the stress will hurt the baby. I've only come home to take a shower and sitting here trying to breathe, but I can't stop crying. He's everywhere I look. Our daughters are all trying to be so strong, I know they are hurting and sad but they are taking it much better than I am. At least right now, I know that will probably change.
Sorry for rambling and posting something like this. No one in our families know about the baby, we were planning on telling at Thanksgiving.

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November 13th, 2013, 09:31 AM
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I am so sorry and am praying for you and baby and your husband and family. We are all here if you need to vent.
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November 13th, 2013, 09:32 AM
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I'm so very sorry. I wish I had words to offer you comfort. You'll all be in my thoughts.
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November 13th, 2013, 09:36 AM
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Oh honey, I'm sorry that your family is going through this. My prayers are definitely with you. It's ok to cry...cry as much as you need to. You are a very strong woman, wife and mommy. You can ramble as much as you need and if you need to just talk to a total pregnant stranger, you are more than welcome to pm me and I will non-hesitantly give you my number. I know it may be hard right now, but try to make sure to take care of yourself and the beautiful baby that you are carrying. Sending Prayers and thoughts your way love.
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November 13th, 2013, 09:49 AM
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I am SO SO SORRY!!!!!!!! Keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers ♥♥♥
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November 13th, 2013, 10:03 AM
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November 13th, 2013, 10:03 AM
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Brandy,

I am so terribly sorry for you and your family. I know nothing I can say is of much comfort, but I am here in case you need to vent, talk... whatever. Take care of yourself.
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November 13th, 2013, 10:33 AM
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I am so sorry sweetie Praying for you and your entire family.
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November 13th, 2013, 11:09 AM
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My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope you can get all the comfort, release and support that you need.
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November 13th, 2013, 11:19 AM
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I am so very sorry. I'll be praying for you and your whole family.
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I'm so sorry Prayers to you and your girls and your entire family for comfort, strength and peace.
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I'm so sorry Brandy. I will pray for you and your family. Its ok to feel weak, the strength will come when you need it.
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November 13th, 2013, 02:53 PM
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November 13th, 2013, 04:28 PM
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Thoughts and prayers, i know nothing I say will make it better, but you and your family are in my prayers
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November 13th, 2013, 07:12 PM
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I am so sorry to hear. In the same situation I would be totally shocked and nervous and probably angry too. I am not very good with words but just wanted to let you know another person has you in their thoughts. I'm wishing you all the best throughout this terribly difficult time you are about to go through.
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November 14th, 2013, 05:37 AM
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How awful . Keeping your family in my t&p!
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November 14th, 2013, 06:24 AM
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I cannot imagine what you are going through. I'm very very sorry. Let me know if you need anything at all.
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November 14th, 2013, 07:56 AM
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Lurking from the Nov 13 Playroom, but wanted to offer prayers for strength in the coming days for you and your family. What a horrible tragedy. I can't even imagine your pain, but wanted to send a prayer your way.
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November 14th, 2013, 09:38 AM
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I will being praying for you and your family! I was a hospice nurse for two years and I know nothing that I can say can offer comfort to you but I will pray for strength for you during this difficult time!
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November 14th, 2013, 12:57 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this! My heart goes out to you and your family! <3
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