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April 28th, 2014, 06:59 AM
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So I'm 13 days post partum and I'm thinking about sex lol! What about my other post partum mamas? Or btdt mamas how long did you wait? I feel healed and my bleeding has stopped so I think I'm ready
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April 28th, 2014, 07:09 AM
Decemberhill's Avatar Nicole
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Holy cow! You are one lucky mama! Then again, your husband was gone…so I can understand why!

Mom to Ava (8) and Layla (6). Bennett Scott due May 19, 2014!
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April 28th, 2014, 07:14 AM
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Last time I think it was 5 weeks out, right after my bleeding stopped. I'll be up for it as soon as my incision feels stable enough and bleeding has stopped, I think

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April 28th, 2014, 07:18 AM
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My first was a section also, we waited 2 weeks. The next two were around 4 weeks. At the rate of this recovery, I might go the 6 weeks.

Killian Rivers born April 17th at 36 weeks

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April 28th, 2014, 10:11 AM
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I've been eyeing him up all week and its driving me crazy. I just wanna "snuggle" with him so bad. I actually had a dream last night that I just attacked him.

With my first I waited 3 weeks. I have a midwife appt tomorrow and I will ask her then. Im not ready yet, but soon I hope.

I also have to make sure he is ready. We were talking last night and he said watching the birth changed "it" for him which was quickly followed by " I'll get over it" hahah I hope he isnt to badly scarred.

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April 28th, 2014, 10:13 AM
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We waited 2 weeks with my DD. This time, I am not sure what will happen......I think it will be less about interest and more about finding the opportunity.
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April 28th, 2014, 10:14 AM
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Last time I was pregnant we didn't dtd for several months before our son was born and it was about six months after he was born before we dtd again. We never found the time lol. Then he deployed for 6 months and I was on my period when he got home. We got pregnant with this baby then lol. I'm too uncomfortable to dtd now so it's going to be a while again.

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April 28th, 2014, 12:49 PM
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I'll wait at least the full 6 weeks after Colton is born. I barely tore last time but it was extremely uncomfortable when we tried at 6 weeks.


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April 28th, 2014, 03:23 PM
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It was at least 8 weeks last time. I was just too nervous to try again, very protective of my lady parts and it hurt the first time we dtd again

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April 28th, 2014, 04:05 PM
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I'll wait the full six weeks. Had quite a few stitches last time and it was several months before it wasn't painful to DTD last time.

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April 28th, 2014, 04:30 PM
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I've been wanting to do it since the day after lol I have too many stitches though and OB said none until he sees me at 6 weeks. So I will wait. Unfortunately.
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April 28th, 2014, 04:36 PM
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What is that....I dont remember! DH has cut me off completely for the last 6 weeks. Last time it was most of the pg. It creeps him out when he can see a little alien moving lmao!

I think last time we only waited about 3 weeks. I had bad tearing but I healed super fast and felt great really soon after! This baby might be different since her bassinet is in our room so it might be weird....

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April 28th, 2014, 05:54 PM
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When I stop bleeding and hurting sounds good to me. I feel prbutt y sore and rotten and the bleeding has picked up again so blegh. Lol at least we got one last go in on what ended up being baby day lol. Well see how DH goes now that he's seen things. He went over to see the baby and ended up watching half the c section. Said it was like battlefield Vietnam and murder scenes had less gore at them. Lovely goings on like pain med suppositories up the but, brushes going up places and yeah.

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April 28th, 2014, 06:50 PM
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I'm hoping as soon as possible. I can't wait for my body and my libido to be back to normal. It's so hard to maneuver with this giant belly. And it's weird sometimes when I can feel bun moving and kicking when I'm trying to be in the mood.
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April 28th, 2014, 08:40 PM
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At least the 6 weeks....

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April 29th, 2014, 12:22 AM
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Seriously, as soon as I feel good enough. I think my DH is sexy and he's been working out, mmm...
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April 29th, 2014, 07:10 AM
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Um never?? Oh was that not an option? Lol I thought I was supposed to see an increase in sex drive at 30 but yeah no. I wouldn't until at least my stitches are healed- 6 weeks minimum.
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