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May 13th, 2014, 04:50 PM
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Anyone been brave enough to have a go yet? If so, how far postpartum were you? If not, when will you likely wait until before you try?
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May 13th, 2014, 05:27 PM
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Cant answer this one yet....but with DD we only waited about 3 weeks. I had very little bleeding...lots of tearing but it never bothered me. Awesome doc doing the stitches I guess?
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May 13th, 2014, 06:29 PM
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I've been wanting to since the next day Im waiting till my "bleeding" stops. Its basicly been done since week 2 but I am still spotty off an on
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May 13th, 2014, 07:31 PM
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I'm with Nel! But my ob said to wait...I'm thinking of doing it anyway though lol
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May 13th, 2014, 07:52 PM
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We won't make it all the way to 6 weeks.....not sure when it will happen, though. I'm hoping soon my incision will feel a little more stable, then we'll go for it!
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May 13th, 2014, 07:53 PM
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We had a go just before the 2 week mark and a few days ago... Wouldn't have thought things would feel so raw in there after a c section! DH did watch the second half of the section though and apparently there's stuff going all sorts of places and ripping stuff back through the cervix and such so maybe it shouldn't be a surprise lol. Haha he even took a picture of my tummy cut open .
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May 14th, 2014, 07:08 AM
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We did just before 3 weeks. I'll tell you sex after a c-section is much better than sex after a vaginal delivery. I was very sore after my first, but also because I labored with him. I didn't labor with Killian.

We've resumed our normal sex life. We are using condoms with the pull out method. I told him while I want a 5th baby, I'm not aiming for a February 2015 due date.
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May 14th, 2014, 07:58 AM
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I have decided I will wait until at least 3 months post-baby since DH refuses to DTD now to help get baby out. Grr......Maybe I'll shoot for a year after. I told him today if I end up getting induced because he wont even try sex Im locking him out of the hospital room
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May 14th, 2014, 09:05 AM
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Midwife basically said we could DTD in another week or so (I still have one stitch that hasn't dissolved). I'm definitely planning on next week! I miss being intimate with my husband.
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May 14th, 2014, 10:15 AM
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I don't think we will be waiting the full 6 weeks...although no one ever told us we should wait that long since I was never given any instructions upon discharge anyway. My bleeding went away and now I'm spotting again so that's frustrating :/ Other than that I feel up to it though....did not feel up to it until at least 6/7 weeks pp with my first and even then it hurt.
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May 14th, 2014, 10:23 AM
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We tried at 2.5 weeks and I'm still sore down there since baby boy was born very fast with apparently a normal size nb head (so if he was term he would have had a big head like ods lol) he also came out posterior which last time made me quite sore as well. we have been doing other stuff I'll be 1 month pp tomorrow we will try again in the next few days
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May 14th, 2014, 10:32 AM
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oh wait you were serious? At this point I can't imagine having sex again...ever... Having a little bit of a tough recovery this time around. I have babies with big heads that like to come out like rockets which equals lots and lots of stitches:/ I'm sure I will be able to sit on hard chairs again one day...
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May 14th, 2014, 07:08 PM
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Sex? Never ever again lol. My lady bits and I are scared for our lives over here!
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May 15th, 2014, 12:17 AM
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We have sex planned for Friday, I'll let you know how it goes.
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May 15th, 2014, 05:26 AM
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we have..I was around 4 weeks PP. Been on pelvic rest since 18 weeks!
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May 17th, 2014, 01:30 PM
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Update..... I was pleasantly surprised that I had no pain. Go get some girls!
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