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  #1  
September 20th, 2009, 11:15 AM
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i don't know if it's okay for me to post here-- but jm is so welcoming everywhere, for everyone. i just wanted to talk, and celebrate a life.

in the past 4 years, there have been two infant deaths in my very best friend's family.

in september 2005, my best friend lost her 4 month old son, Michael. he suffocated, with severe negligence from his father. this past spring, her little brother's 24-week son, Reese died from chronic lung disease. he was 4 months old, but never even left the hospital.

and i found out today that a friend of mine who had a two-month-old, Aiden, passed away last month. he got caught in the sheets overnight. they had him on life support for a few days, at different hospitals. he lived 36 minutes after they took him off. i'm just really sad, and i can't believe it has happened again. i know you ladies must ask every day, but why the little ones?

i am so very sorry for all of your losses, i can't even say...

thank you for reading. rip sweet baby aiden.
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timothy michael, august 31, 2003, 12:02pm, 8 lb. 4 oz., 21"- 38 wks.
melissa may, april 7, 2006, 1:31pm, 7 lb. 10.5 oz., 19.5"- 36.5 wks
nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
damon michael, january 21, 2012, 1:31am, 6 lb. 14 oz., 20", 38 wks
rainbow baby left me at 6-1/2 weeks on 09.08.12~ never forgotten, sweet child


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September 20th, 2009, 04:20 PM
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I am so sorry for you friends losses. I ask myself why all the time and its been almost 4 years now.
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September 20th, 2009, 10:01 PM
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awwww
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September 21st, 2009, 09:22 AM
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rachel~ your picture of drake- he's just beautiful, mama. lots sof hugs for you, and angel kisses to him...
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msjaQ- 28, pantheist AP detroit mama to:
timothy michael, august 31, 2003, 12:02pm, 8 lb. 4 oz., 21"- 38 wks.
melissa may, april 7, 2006, 1:31pm, 7 lb. 10.5 oz., 19.5"- 36.5 wks
nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
damon michael, january 21, 2012, 1:31am, 6 lb. 14 oz., 20", 38 wks
rainbow baby left me at 6-1/2 weeks on 09.08.12~ never forgotten, sweet child


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September 22nd, 2009, 08:29 AM
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oh no thats so sad we ask evry day hun why the little ones
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September 24th, 2009, 01:19 PM
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hugs and love for you, claire. i'm so very sorry for your loss of sweet baby jessica.

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msjaQ- 28, pantheist AP detroit mama to:
timothy michael, august 31, 2003, 12:02pm, 8 lb. 4 oz., 21"- 38 wks.
melissa may, april 7, 2006, 1:31pm, 7 lb. 10.5 oz., 19.5"- 36.5 wks
nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
damon michael, january 21, 2012, 1:31am, 6 lb. 14 oz., 20", 38 wks
rainbow baby left me at 6-1/2 weeks on 09.08.12~ never forgotten, sweet child


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September 24th, 2009, 01:28 PM
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It saddens me every time I hear about the death of a little one. There are some ood articles for friend and family of people who have had a loss.

This post has some guidelines for posting in this forum, but I find a lot of them to be true in real life too, maybe it will be helpful if you are struggling with how to talk to the family. http://www.justmommies.com/forums/f1...e-posting.html (Read this BEFORE posting)

I have gone through it and still struggle a little bit about how to talk to other angel parents.
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September 29th, 2009, 01:20 PM
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thanks, jenny. and you were so sweet to me when i left the feb '09 DDC. to you. i remember you, and i am very sorry for your loss.
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msjaQ- 28, pantheist AP detroit mama to:
timothy michael, august 31, 2003, 12:02pm, 8 lb. 4 oz., 21"- 38 wks.
melissa may, april 7, 2006, 1:31pm, 7 lb. 10.5 oz., 19.5"- 36.5 wks
nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
damon michael, january 21, 2012, 1:31am, 6 lb. 14 oz., 20", 38 wks
rainbow baby left me at 6-1/2 weeks on 09.08.12~ never forgotten, sweet child


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