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September 16th, 2010, 10:13 AM
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Location: Grand Rapids Michigan United States
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Everyone treats me so much different. They treat me like I will fall apart at the drop of a hat. Some people don't talk to us much know. They say because they don't know what to say. I really wish people would talk about Madison. Some people just can't fathom what losing a child would be like. I wish people could just show some compassion and put themselves in my shoes. It is a difficult time right now as the girls third Birthday comes up in October.
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September 19th, 2010, 09:48 AM
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People actually treat me the same as I always did and they expect me to not be bothered by things that upset me. It's very annoying to be honest.
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September 20th, 2010, 08:32 AM
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I agree with both of you. Some people treat me like nothing ever happend and expect that I just live my life normally and "get over it". How do you just get over losing a 2 year old? Mostly because I have my daughter now and they think that has just magically made everything better. It does get very annoying.

Other times I mention Izaiah and people back off, I do still enjoy to talk about my son because he was HERE and he was my SON, but people just don't understand that.
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