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October 1st, 2011, 12:16 PM
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my story when I was 19 now 26 I was over joyed to find out I was pregnant. young I might have been I and my now husband were very excited. 6 months had passed room set up prepared. I went in for a check up my doctor could not find the heart beat. my heart dropped. I waited for the ultra sound and then found I had lost my child. There is so much after 6 years I still can not get over after having other children I have became resentful of my self for not holding Kaitlyn. I am so mad that I didnt I think about it all the time. I was so numb and mad at the world I just wanted it all to disappear along with myself. I guess I need advice on the way I am thinking. I dont want anyone to think i am selfish but I was also wondering if anyone goes through this I have 3 boys who I am so happy and thankful to have but sometimes I find myself upset that I am done having babies and didn't get to raise a girl. My baby girl is an angel. I just would like to hear others thoughts.
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October 1st, 2011, 01:41 PM
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First off I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't think we do get over some parts of our losses. It's been 4 years for me and I still have a lot of regrets and sadness. It's not selfish to be sad that you are done having children and being upset that you didn't raise any girls.

I have two elder children and then my loss was my last child. It's been years and I'm still having a hard time coping with the fact that we're done. I hope that with time there comes a peace with it. But so far I've not gotten that.

I wish I had good advice but really all I can say is all that you feel are normal and real and let yourself grieve and feel these things. Don't bottle them up
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