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January 6th, 2014, 11:25 AM
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I think that the worrying may be a little worse being a part of a DDC here - it means that we are more aware of other women's hardships and heart-breaking experiences which then creates more fear for our own pregnancies...

I've mentioned it in some other posts, but my feeling are centered almost more on guilt for being happy and having a (so far) healthy and relatively comfortable pregnancy. It makes me worry more because I know I am no more or less special than anyone else, so when heart-breaking events happen to others the thought "why not to me" instantly goes through my head.
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January 6th, 2014, 11:29 AM
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[QUOTE=Missymoos;27890865]I think that the worrying may be a little worse being a part of a DDC here - it means that we are more aware of other women's hardships and heart-breaking experiences which then creates more fear for our own pregnancies...

I've mentioned it in some other posts, but my feeling are centered almost more on guilt for being happy and having a (so far) healthy and relatively comfortable pregnancy. It makes me worry more because I know I am no more or less special than anyone else, so when heart-breaking events happen to others the thought "why not to me" instantly goes through my head.[/QUOTE

Lately Ive had that same thought.
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January 6th, 2014, 12:01 PM
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I worried a lot with my ds in 2011, it had been 7 years since I was pg and he was mine and dh's first bio baby after 2 losses. I worried so much that his pg went by so quick and when it was over I realized that I spent more time stressing over the what if's and not nearly enough time really enjoying him being in there. I decided not to do that with dd, I can't control everything as much I would like to sometimes, and I don't know what tomorrow holds, but today I am pg and grateful and I will enjoy it as much as I can.

I really try to live by that but I understand it gets hard to not worry, last week we had 2 horrible outcomes in another group I am in, and then seen Demi's post. I was so sad seeing so many within days of each other at around the same gestation.

Today I am a bit anxious as I thought I felt baby move yesterday but I tried and tried and nothing today, I just keep reminding myself to keep my Faith and let go of things I have no control of.
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