Hi Amy!
Would you have a sprayer from the start?
No, not if you breastfeed. EBF poo is very runny and completely water soluble, you just run a prewash to rinse it off before your main wash.
How would you "store" dirty diapers?
I use a hanging wet bag. You can also use a pail liner in a plastic kitchen trash can. It's nice to use washable liners or bags because you just push it inside out as you dump the dipes in the washer, throw it in and wash with the diapers!
What would you get to go out and about for short trips, day trips, and a longer trip for going in a diaper bag or suitcase?
Diapers, wipes, wet bag for dirties. More diapers/wipes and a bigger wetbag for longer trips. The only difference from sposies is the wet bag so you can take them home!
How/what would you send as diapers at daycare? How would have have them store "dirty" diapers for you to bring home?
No experience, but I believe you just bring a supply of clean diapers and a wet bag for dirties every morning, then bring the bag of dirties home at night. Some daycares have requirements re types, like some only change pockets or AIOs and can't do separate cover systems, but some can.
How hard is it to find a wash routine?
Easy, unless you have very hard water, an HE washer, and hard to clean diapers.
What about using free & clear detergents and natural laundry products?
I'm gonna be honest, many "natural" detergents don't work as well. Free & clear of dyes and perfumes is not the issue, the main issue is enzymes, builders/surfactants, and when/if you need it, strong oxidizing (disinfecting) power. I currently use Tide F&G or 7th Generation unscented detergent and unscented regular bleach. But when I had an EBF baby and softer water, I used natural detergent and vinegar and had no problems. I also love Bac-Out, which is a natural enzyme product that works amazingly well on poop and pee.
How do you prep new diapers?
Wash and dry on hot several times (not with diapers in current use) to remove most of the oils.
Which natural fibers work best?
COTTON is king. It is the easiest to get clean and very durable. People love bamboo too, and hemp, for overnight or heavy wetters, but these are always blended with cotton.
What diaper materials are the easiest to use and take care of?
100% Natural fibers. No polyester in the backing. No microfiber, no synthetics. Anything with few layers in fabric in each separate piece, no elastic, no PUL, no nylon. Keeping the elastic/PUL containing cover or pocket piece separate allows you to deep clean the absorbent piece without wearing out the more delicate piece.
Easy to use is a matter of opinion. Whatever you like and use frequently will become easy to you. AIOs and prestuffed pockets or presnapped AI2s are the easiest for uninitiated people to get on, folded and pinned flats or prefolds are the hardest, but they are the cheapest and easiest to clean as well.
What diapers would you put in a diaper bag? How many diapers would you take with you for a day trip?
Depends on the age of the baby. I am an overpacker so I would take like 10 for an all day trip. I usually just take a few but keep emergency backups in the car.
What would you recommend starting with for someone who is interested in making their own diapers?
I will let some of our experienced diaper makers answer that one!!!
How many of diapers would you have in a stash for a hoping to be EBF newborn?
36 at least
Would you CD from birth or wait a few days or weeks?
I started on day 5 or so with M. I was letting hospital nurses, DH and grandparents do all the changing at first and we had a bunch of free sposies. Next time I would like to start as soon as we are home from the hospital.
Would you get a whole stash by birth or just a few to try so you can see what you like and what works for you?
I got a whole stash of prefolds and covers before birth and it worked great for me! I had already practiced prefolds on my friend's newborn so I knew they worked well for me.
How soon would you start trying to make diapers if you wanted to make quite a bit of your stash, but didn't have a lot of time to devote to sewing?
ASAP