Log In Sign Up

Settle an argument for me please.


Forum: Mommies With an Eating Disorder

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Mommies With an Eating Disorder LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
September 17th, 2011, 08:21 PM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 784
My DH and I over the years have argued weather a site I go to is a pro-anna or not. So how can you tell if it's pro-anna or just supportive to everyone along the path to recovery. He feels I go there TO get sicker, I feel I go there WHEN I'm sicker. That is two completely different things. How do we know weather it's pro-anna or not? This is a preemptive thing as it's only a matter of time before we fight over my computer history.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
September 17th, 2011, 09:21 PM
alethia's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Phoenix, Arizona
Posts: 18,623
if they're on a path to recovery it's not pro- anna --- pro-anna is for typically support of the continued ED, with things like thinspirations, tips for loosing weight etc. If you go there WHEN you're feeling sicker -that's not uncommon - most ppl seek support when they're struggling, we need that boost and that - you can get thro this. i'm voting not pro-anna at all. But also, i know htat you're hubby is just considered and being a septic for you're best interest - because i know in my eating disorder i've liiiiieeed sooo much to keep things going, so my hubby questions - appropriately - some things too. It's cuase he loves you as frustrating as it is.
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #3  
September 18th, 2011, 04:54 PM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 784
Thank-you. We talked about it today, as long as I'm NOS, taking my medication, and my team of doctors aren't worried then he has no right to be. However he reserves the right to call BS if he feels I'm lying to anyone of them. He will take me to emergency if I purge. I don't fully feel that's fair but it's a decent compromise enough not to hide my current behaviors.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 05:26 AM.



Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0