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February 15th, 2014, 05:53 AM
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this morning Adam wakes me up all excited about a new tooth. upon further inspection, it is an adult tooth coming in behind a baby tooth that is not loose.

perfect.

so we need to go to the dentist. and possibly have the tooth pulled.

so this is all my fault because I am pregnant with a baby he didn't want.

Nathan was throwing an absolute $H!T fit this morning about the video game he was playing, and it was all my fault becuase I am pregnant with a baby DH didn't want.

what next?

what else is my fautl because I am pregnant with a baby dh doesn't want.

we had plans today and it is snowing, and the plans are cancelled. so I am sure that is my fault.
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February 15th, 2014, 06:15 AM
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Sounds to me like he is being immature. After all, it takes two to tango. He had to know, even if it wasn't forefront, that doing the deed can lead to a baby.

But maybe he needs time to just be angry before he can start to come around.

My dad wasn't best pleased when we went from family of five to six. But my baby sister is his favorite and we all couldn't imagine life without her!

Hopefully once his hissy fit winds down he'll become more supportive.
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February 15th, 2014, 06:28 AM
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Tell him you're sorry you slipped and fell on his dick and you'll try not to do it again. Grrr! I'm so sorry he's acting like this.
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February 15th, 2014, 07:36 AM
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^ahaha! love it!
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February 15th, 2014, 07:37 AM
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hey my oldest gets the tooth thing all the time

dentist wont pull it

the other will fall out- dentist will tell you to give it time

just try a& ignore DH when he acts like that

hopefully he grows up {{hugs}}
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February 15th, 2014, 09:10 AM
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He is definitely being and a*s. When he gets like that just remind him he didn't get that vasectomy that you asked him to get. He is just as responsible for making this baby as you are. You just happen to be the one carrying it.
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February 15th, 2014, 10:29 AM
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I think its about time for DH to be in the

Its NOT your fault!! If he wants to blame ANYONE, he can blame himself Use it to your advantage
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February 15th, 2014, 12:09 PM
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I see he's still acting like a child! As far as I can tell, the real reason he's ticked is because the snow ruined his plans today. When my husband acts like that, I start to do things that I know will irritate him. He wants to act like a child, I can too (and then I play dumb when he tries to call me out on it, just to really mess with him) lol
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February 15th, 2014, 03:08 PM
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I see he's still acting like a child! As far as I can tell, the real reason he's ticked is because the snow ruined his plans today. When my husband acts like that, I start to do things that I know will irritate him. He wants to act like a child, I can too (and then I play dumb when he tries to call me out on it, just to really mess with him) lol

I really like that one I may have to try it!!!
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February 15th, 2014, 05:01 PM
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You're already pregnant...so at this point, what does he want you to do?! I'd ignore him, and let him pout, but he wouldn't take it out on me. And he'd become far more tired of me ignoring him than pouting about a situation that he was totally part of! Let him cook his own dinners, wash his own clothes, and do some other things on his own...if he didn't want anymore kids, he should have gotten the vasectomy or chosen to use his 5 fingers that night!!!
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February 15th, 2014, 05:23 PM
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He is being so unfair!! Afterall, he had sex with you and that can lead to pregnancy.

My daughter had that happen too. They call it a "Shark Tooth". They did pull
my daughters because we were going on vacation and they didn't want her to worry about it. Good luck!
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February 15th, 2014, 06:48 PM
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well to be fair to him. I was the one pushing for DTD. He didn't really want to.

As for Adam's tooth, it is getting loose, so I hope only a few days and it will fall out.
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February 15th, 2014, 10:43 PM
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well to be fair to him. I was the one pushing for DTD. He didn't really want to.
...but he did choose to go through with it, knowing the possibility, right?

That said what was your plan if you happened to get pregnant? I mean you know him better than us...did you not think he'd be this angry?
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February 16th, 2014, 06:29 AM
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no, I did not think he would be angry. he seems to have him moments of totally fine, and then his moments of pissed off.
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February 16th, 2014, 09:44 AM
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oh okay...then maybe he just needs some time...but he'd have to go out in a field somewhere and kick rocks, not hurl them at me! but that's just the taurean in me
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February 16th, 2014, 05:34 PM
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I REALLY like AmyLM's response. I'd probably have a smart arse somment back to my DF if he was being an immature jerk like that. But that's just the kind of person I am :/
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