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April 29th, 2014, 08:48 AM
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Is it just me that is ridiculously, umm, needy all the time lately? I feel bad for my poor husband. For the last couple weeks, I've been completely insatiable. I think he's getting tired of having to deal with me, LOL.

From what I hear, you're usually on one side or the other during pregnancy. How is everyone else's sex drive? Am I alone here?
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April 29th, 2014, 09:00 AM
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Im pretty sure we are ok in that department

FWIW: I was like this with my son - both of my girls my libido was nada.
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April 29th, 2014, 09:01 AM
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I don't think mines changed. So if it has changed, not by very much. I'm way more sensitive though, so we've - well he's - had to change how we go about it. I think my being more sensitive, making it hurt if not careful, has lowered my sex drive a bit.
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April 29th, 2014, 09:06 AM
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At the beginning, I was most interested. But then the whole diabetes/PIH thing made it take a nose dive because I was stressed. Now I have a yeast infection because of the medication I'm on for my face. So, yeah, not feeling it here. I feel bad for hubby - but for the opposite reason!
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April 29th, 2014, 09:15 AM
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Ugh! If we never have sex again, it'll be too soon. Does that answer your question? haha My poor husband. I say my poor husband but even though I don't want to, I still dtd at least every other night.
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April 29th, 2014, 10:17 AM
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Sort of a hard question to answer. During the day when I just have Caleb to deal with it's going nuts, but by the time the kids get home and spending the next 5 hours afterward trying not to kill them pretty well kills any libido I have. But that's regardless of being pregnant. Honestly the only reason I even got pregnant was because my stepson was watching Caleb! We have managed to have sex exactly twice since I got pregnant.
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April 29th, 2014, 11:15 AM
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The beginning of pregnancy I was so scared that we didn't dtd but once in the first 14 weeks (poor DH) but now since my DH has been gone for a while (he comes back tomorrow) I have been more interested. Have actually had some dreams about dtd lately. So odd. I feel like a teenage boy lmao!!!
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April 29th, 2014, 11:32 AM
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The beginning of pregnancy I was so scared that we didn't dtd but once in the first 14 weeks (poor DH) but now since my DH has been gone for a while (he comes back tomorrow) I have been more interested. Have actually had some dreams about dtd lately. So odd. I feel like a teenage boy lmao!!!
I think the dreams are whats fueling half of my.....um....'obsession'.....
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April 29th, 2014, 01:07 PM
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Mine is through the roof. Unfortunately I get awful contractions for a few hours after so I can't do it as much as I would like. Plus I have a toddler that sucks at sleeping.
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April 29th, 2014, 01:27 PM
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Ugh! If we never have sex again, it'll be too soon. Does that answer your question? haha My poor husband. I say my poor husband but even though I don't want to, I still dtd at least every other night.
This is me exactly lol
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May 1st, 2014, 06:05 PM
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I was put on doctor's orders to not have intercourse for 8 weeks. We are currently on week 4 of 8. Nevertheless, even if these orders were not in place, I have absolutely no drive. When I was pregnant with my son, I had a strong libido from weeks 16-20 and then it went away completely. My poor husband! In the meantime, he or we, will have to find other ways to curb his needs.

In addition, I am also worried about intercourse with this baby because I am so high risk this time around. Hopefully, he understands.
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May 1st, 2014, 07:33 PM
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Mine has been super high lately. And the dreams are definitely contributing lol. Luckily my DH doesn't mind. His is just as bad haha. I am high risk, but my cervix looks good so other than work restrictions, I haven't been put on pelvic rest. I definitely contract after, but it isn't doing anything so I don't worry.
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May 1st, 2014, 08:05 PM
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In the beginning I was so tired I couldn't function, then a little nauseous, but now my libido is back up there. In fact, the other morning I had a really vivid dream that got me all riled up. Needless to say, It went DOWN! lol I do notice if we're a little too frisky I feel crampy though so I need to remember I'm almost halfway through this thing even though my belly doesn't show that.
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May 2nd, 2014, 07:21 AM
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What libido? I have no desire and with my husband being sick with pneumonia for the past couple of months we've barely touched each other. I keep waiting for it to come back, I really hope it does soon.
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May 4th, 2014, 11:37 AM
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I have zero want for anything sexual. ZERO. Lol. And I've been so moody that it just irritates me when he makes advances. I feel bad for him, but it feels like such a chore. And I'm never like this! With my son, I was insatiable. Poor df is suffering. I have promised myself that I am going to make myself at least fake that I want it once a week so he doesn't have to go without.
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May 4th, 2014, 12:18 PM
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Mine is super high in the early afternoons....which would be great, if DH didn't work during the day. So, by the time he gets home, it's pretty much gone and all I want to do is sleep or eat. Plus, with the super sniffer I've got, if he wants to come within a foot of me he needs to have brushed his teeth otherwise I smell everything he ate during the day and it's a major turnoff. I have noticed though, that sex is different since about 8 weeks or so - my "go to" for my personal guarantee changes spots nowadays, so I kind of have to hunt around for it. Sometimes it's fun, other times I'm just "ehh too much work" and forgo sex altogether. Thankfully DH is a saint and we only DTD when we both want to - he has no interest if I'm not 100% on board.
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May 4th, 2014, 06:14 PM
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Ugh! If we never have sex again, it'll be too soon. Does that answer your question? haha My poor husband. I say my poor husband but even though I don't want to, I still dtd at least every other night.
This! Minus the DTD every night part!
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May 4th, 2014, 07:26 PM
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The advantage to being single is I don't have to worry about what SO thinks about it. However my dreams seem to be telling me which x-boyfriends I preferred over others...
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May 5th, 2014, 03:25 AM
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I have absolutely no interest in sex I'm to tired from working and looking after 2 kids I feel bad for my SO he would dtd everyday if I wanted to if he nags me enough we do but that's like once a month and only to keep him quiet! we only dtd twice the month I got pregnant!
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