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  #1  
February 14th, 2014, 04:06 AM
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*sigh* I really wish I knew what is wrong with me. 3 chemicals in a row and I just can't see any reason for it.

I hope all you ladies have a happy and healthy nine months.
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Oopsie Cycle - August 2013 - Chemical Pregnancy
TTC Cycle #1 - chemical pregnancy
TTC Cycle #2 - Chemical pregnancy
TTC Cycle #3 - RE consultation and blood work, normal HSG.
Cycle #4 - Planning on WTTC, but was surprised with a BFP 4/11/14. First beta on 4/15/14 @ 12 DPO= 154.2, beta on 4/17/14 @ 14 DPO was 459.1, beta on 4/23/14 @ 20 DPO = 6,195!


After 3 early losses I am cautiously expecting a Christmas miracle.

Our son, Roen Kitt, is due 12/21/2014!!!
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February 14th, 2014, 04:10 AM
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Oh no! Hope you are seeing a specialist to help you. Good luck and hope the next one us it.
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February 14th, 2014, 04:18 AM
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I am so sorry
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February 14th, 2014, 04:45 AM
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I'm so sorry. Have you been checked for a clotting disorder or low progesterone?
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February 14th, 2014, 05:01 AM
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No, they won't do anything until 3 losses so now I'll be referred to a RE. I have zero problem getting pregnant and from what I've read that generally either means low progesterone, the baby isn't able to establish a blood supply or my immune system is reacting to SO's proteins and treating baby as an evader. Seems tht since I do have any real trouble actually oing, conceiving and initially implanting the treatment should be straight forward. I guess we shall see. I haven't started bleeding yet, but I took an HPT with FMU that was pretty much the same as 12 DPO.

I just want bleeding to start so I can move on. I don't feel the same disappointment as I did the last two because now I know I'll be taken seriously and this issue addressed.
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8/13, 1/14, 2/14 - mommy to angels!

Oopsie Cycle - August 2013 - Chemical Pregnancy
TTC Cycle #1 - chemical pregnancy
TTC Cycle #2 - Chemical pregnancy
TTC Cycle #3 - RE consultation and blood work, normal HSG.
Cycle #4 - Planning on WTTC, but was surprised with a BFP 4/11/14. First beta on 4/15/14 @ 12 DPO= 154.2, beta on 4/17/14 @ 14 DPO was 459.1, beta on 4/23/14 @ 20 DPO = 6,195!


After 3 early losses I am cautiously expecting a Christmas miracle.

Our son, Roen Kitt, is due 12/21/2014!!!
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February 14th, 2014, 05:04 AM
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Going to an RE was the best decision I've ever made. Good luck. So frustrating to me that they treat 3 losses so lightly.
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February 14th, 2014, 05:57 AM
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I'm sorry hun.. I never get good tests on FMU though for what it's worth.. I hope that you get a sticky bean soon!
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February 14th, 2014, 06:59 AM
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I am so sorry! Good thing you will be seen by a specialist, it's sad you had to go through this again though before being able to be seen by one but at least now it will happen and you will get some answers.
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February 14th, 2014, 08:00 AM
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((Hugs)) I am so sorry
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February 14th, 2014, 08:03 AM
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Oh no. I am so sorry! Ditto to having your progesterone checked and the clotting thing too. I think it's ridiculous that any doctor would make someone go through 3 losses before treating this. My doctor treated both from the get go, even with no history of mc. I hope you concieve again quickly...please keep us updated!
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February 14th, 2014, 08:12 AM
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So sorry!
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February 14th, 2014, 09:07 AM
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So sorry! I hope you get some answers soon
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February 14th, 2014, 09:45 AM
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Lurking, but did you get confirmation that your HCG was back to 0 after the 2nd mc??? It's really really soon after your 2nd mc to have even gotten a bfp again so soon...

A friend of mine had 2 mc a year apart and was referred to a geneticist for testing to see if her mc's were due to a genetic mutation of the bubs and her body was naturally expelling them bc they weren't viable. Now she's 21 wks along with a healthy LO.

GL with your RE though. Going through fertility treatments is anything but straight forward no matter how much you prepare yourself going into it. Hopefully they can figure out the root of the problem and bring your dream of becoming a Mom to fruition!
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February 14th, 2014, 09:54 AM
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I'm so sorry
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February 14th, 2014, 10:32 AM
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I'm sorry. I have had 3 losses as well and while I think my issue is low progesterone I am on a very aggressive protocol this time around with progesterone, treatment for clotting issues (I have a minor MTHFR mutation) and immune issues. Hopefully you can pinpoint what is going wrong and fix it without too much trouble
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February 14th, 2014, 10:33 AM
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So sorry
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February 14th, 2014, 12:05 PM
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I'm so sorry! I hope that you get some answers soon and that a rainbow baby is waiting shortly in your future! (Hugs).
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February 14th, 2014, 12:10 PM
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Lurking, but did you get confirmation that your HCG was back to 0 after the 2nd mc??? It's really really soon after your 2nd mc to have even gotten a bfp again so soon...

A friend of mine had 2 mc a year apart and was referred to a geneticist for testing to see if her mc's were due to a genetic mutation of the bubs and her body was naturally expelling them bc they weren't viable. Now she's 21 wks along with a healthy LO.

GL with your RE though. Going through fertility treatments is anything but straight forward no matter how much you prepare yourself going into it. Hopefully they can figure out the root of the problem and bring your dream of becoming a Mom to fruition!
I took a FRER 1 week after 2nd mc and got a negative.
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8/13, 1/14, 2/14 - mommy to angels!

Oopsie Cycle - August 2013 - Chemical Pregnancy
TTC Cycle #1 - chemical pregnancy
TTC Cycle #2 - Chemical pregnancy
TTC Cycle #3 - RE consultation and blood work, normal HSG.
Cycle #4 - Planning on WTTC, but was surprised with a BFP 4/11/14. First beta on 4/15/14 @ 12 DPO= 154.2, beta on 4/17/14 @ 14 DPO was 459.1, beta on 4/23/14 @ 20 DPO = 6,195!


After 3 early losses I am cautiously expecting a Christmas miracle.

Our son, Roen Kitt, is due 12/21/2014!!!
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February 14th, 2014, 12:40 PM
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Social... are you going to get a second set of betas. It took my dollar store tests several days to get even a smidge darker.
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