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April 4th, 2014, 07:21 PM
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Quick recap, as we have a lot of new mommies here, ttc for as long as I have been on here, pretty much gave up and during his birthday week it finally happened! I was excited, he went into shock and decided he was not ready and was going to walk away. I did pack up his belongings, which he took with him a few days after.

OK SO NOW...I have pretty much left the contact up to him. I am focusing on trying to stay stress free and have a HH9Ms. We have not yet gone a day without communicating at some point. Well, tonight he asked me if we (my boys and I) would like to join them (he and his 2 kids) to go to the movies. I am so excited lol...I am proud of myself because I played it cool lol. I did ask if he was sure, he said well yea, if you want to. So it is official! We are all going to see Captain America tomorrow! Fingers crossed that this is a step in the right direction because although I am prepared to do this alone, it would be nice not to. YAY I AM SO EXCITED LOL!!!
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April 4th, 2014, 10:20 PM
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I am incredibly impressed by how you are handling this situation. You are a strong woman and mama. I would be so pissed i dont think coherent words would even come out of my mouth when speaking to him (which obviously would not be productive in solving the problem lol). Way to handle the situation with major class
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April 4th, 2014, 10:28 PM
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A bit of advice. Altho you may think that this is a huge turning point, don't let it show. Think of it as a play date for the kids, nothing more. Leave him wanting more. Don't push it. Best of luck!
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April 5th, 2014, 04:57 AM
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He was trying with you for years and it finally happens and he wants to walk away. I want to slap the **** out of him for you. Good for you for having patience with him and trying to make it work. I would probably be so freaking angry that I would not be able to be very civil. Good luck and I hope he gets his act together.
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I agree with tmmgeekette.

I hope this a step in the right direction for you, but keep a step, don't leap into anything just yet.

Enjoy the movie!!!
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April 5th, 2014, 11:26 AM
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I'm so glad things are turning around for you! On a side note, I kinda know how he feels. We had been ttc for 11 cycles and talked about it for a few months even before trying. We even had an appt set up with an RE. I can't seem shake the feeling that this was a mistake and not actually what I wanted at all! How can I be so sure I wanted this, and then get it and then feel like it isn't right?? It's a hard feeling to explain but I can sympathize with his confused feelings. sorry to Hijack your thread! Hope you had a great evening with your family.
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April 5th, 2014, 12:03 PM
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Well done! I hope it works out nicely!
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April 5th, 2014, 01:18 PM
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Enjoy! I hope it works out
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April 5th, 2014, 04:05 PM
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Best wishes enjoy the movie and time together!
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April 5th, 2014, 05:47 PM
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I'm so glad things are turning around for you! On a side note, I kinda know how he feels. We had been ttc for 11 cycles and talked about it for a few months even before trying. We even had an appt set up with an RE. I can't seem shake the feeling that this was a mistake and not actually what I wanted at all! How can I be so sure I wanted this, and then get it and then feel like it isn't right?? It's a hard feeling to explain but I can sympathize with his confused feelings. sorry to Hijack your thread! Hope you had a great evening with your family.
I understand him, which is why I'm patient. It went well, and I'm a true lady....always leave them wanting more!
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