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April 15th, 2014, 03:52 AM
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There's nothing I can do about it now, but I thought everyone knew not to say anything on a public forum until it has been officially announced!
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April 15th, 2014, 04:59 AM
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That stinks.. Sorry she did that to you, I always thought that it was common knowledge not to say anything until the person who is pregnant says something publicly herself!
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April 15th, 2014, 05:17 AM
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:-( so annoying!!
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April 15th, 2014, 06:23 AM
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Sorry what a jerky thing to do.
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April 15th, 2014, 06:42 AM
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Its happened in our family too.

My BIL and SIL announced to the family and literally within the hour my sister put it on facebook.


Its not HER news to share! This is what I'm afraid of this weekend..... so we're making an announcement loud & clear after we announce our news....... DO NOT say anything publicly until after we do. We shouldn't have to do this, but since its happened before...we will.


I'm sorry it happened to you......some people just dont think!
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April 15th, 2014, 06:44 AM
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OMG! That's terrible! I'm be soooo mad!
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April 15th, 2014, 07:57 AM
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I'd be livid. You can't unring the bell, but perhaps have her delete the post. Hopefully not everyone on the planet has seen it just yet. How unbelievably rude.
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April 15th, 2014, 08:14 AM
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My sister put up on FB that my brother and SIL had their baby before they had a chance to do it... I actually called my sister and told her to take it down. I told her it was their news, not hers.

That was just wrong - I'm so sorry!
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April 15th, 2014, 08:52 AM
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im sorry that sucks and is so rude. I would flip out on them. My family all knows and thankfully they would never do that.
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April 15th, 2014, 09:05 AM
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That really, really sucks... I'm sorry that happened to you.
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April 15th, 2014, 09:20 AM
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Did you confront her?
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April 15th, 2014, 09:32 AM
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Oy! Well that's annoying...but I'm sure she didn't do it out of spite, probably just too excited. People will still be so happy and ecstatic to see your official post and U/S pic! Remember that!
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April 15th, 2014, 09:37 AM
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I had an acquaintance, not even really a friend, texting me every day when I was due, asking if I was going into labor. When I finally told her I was, she posted it on Facebook! I was NOT ready to share that information with the world. I was pissed off and in labor, and I made my husband call her and ask her to remove it. She said she would, but she never did.
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April 15th, 2014, 09:43 AM
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Well that sucks! Maybe ask her to take it down? I knew when I told my Mom I was pregnant she would tell everybody in the family before I got the chance to even though I asked her not to. Sure enough everyone in the family knew already by the time I posted on facebook.
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April 15th, 2014, 10:50 AM
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I've seen a friend of mine do that to her sister then erase the post, but I still saw it. It's so rude and not their place. I'm so sorry that happened. Since she took that away from you, maybe do something special to announce it yourself. Try googling some ideas
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April 15th, 2014, 10:58 AM
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I would be so mad! I'm sorry
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April 15th, 2014, 12:31 PM
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I would be pissed! Just punch her and blame it on pregnancy hormones You'll feel better!
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April 15th, 2014, 04:02 PM
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Oh no! I'm sorry, I can't imagine doing that to someone. Talk about stealing your thunder.
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April 15th, 2014, 10:59 PM
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BOO!! That's not ok!!
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April 16th, 2014, 04:08 AM
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I haven't gotten any response to it, so I think it got buried in the birthday wishes. Phew! I'm not one to confront people, so I'll just let it go for now. The thing is, we didn't even tell her, yet. She heard it from my mother in law! It's all good, though. I actually feel more betrayed that it snowed last night!
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