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  #21  
December 13th, 2012, 05:07 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss and for having such a horribly insensitive tech!
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December 13th, 2012, 05:53 PM
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Oh I'm so so sorry, mama!! What an insensitive tech!!! Glad your other baby is doing well. Hugs to you.
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December 13th, 2012, 05:56 PM
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Oh no! That's such sad news! But, good news that you still have a healthy baby in there! I can't even imagine the emotions that would come along with that situation. You are in my thoughts and prayers!!
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December 13th, 2012, 07:31 PM
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The comments the tech made really irk me. That was incredibly insensitive. I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your baby in my prayers. Congrats on an early prediction of another little boy. Aw, I wish there was more comforting things I could say. I have just my daughter out of a set of twins and it was devastating. Lots of love from me to you!
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December 13th, 2012, 08:39 PM
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So sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers your way!
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December 14th, 2012, 04:28 AM
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I am very sorry. Big hugs to you.
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December 14th, 2012, 04:32 AM
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Oh sweetheart, I am so sorry. You don't need to tell everyone! Can't you just tell your mom and let her fill everyone in? It will be okay, I promise you'll get through it.
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December 14th, 2012, 04:50 AM
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I'm so sorry about the devistating news. My heart breaks for you. I'm glad the other baby looks good. Congrats on another boy!
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December 14th, 2012, 07:35 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Having a healthy baby in there is wonderful news but it certainly doesn't take away from the loss your going through. Lots of hugs and support your way during this difficult time
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December 14th, 2012, 08:26 AM
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I am so very sorry, that must have been awful to hear. I'm so glad you still have one healthy baby, though. Praying for you.
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December 14th, 2012, 08:45 AM
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I am so sorry to hear you lost your twin. It's such a roller coaster of wanting to be happy about the healthy baby and needing to grieve the twin you lost. It IS a loss. Which is hard for some folks to understand. That baby was in your heart just as much as his brother and you need to let yourself have some time to be sad about it. I went through it in 2011 with my second son, but it was less of a surprise for us since we were told the second baby might not make it because it's heartbeat was not as strong. But it was still a process to adapt from "maybe two!" to "we lost a twin." I can't imagine it being a shock and having the technician be so cruel about it. I would report her to her superior. Would she have been so cold-hearted if a mama lost her one baby? I doubt it, she would have been gentle and consoling. But she felt she had the right to be rude because you "still had one." But that is the problem. Twin loss is still a loss. My heart hurts for you. I hope you come to peace about it. I am very glad your (potential) son is healthy and growing. (Unlurking now)
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December 14th, 2012, 09:06 AM
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i am so very sorry!
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December 14th, 2012, 09:14 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss! Everything happens for a reason, which i know doesnt help anything, but try to remember that! (hugs)
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December 14th, 2012, 02:35 PM
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Just dropping by from the May group.

I had this happen to me as well with my second DS. I was 6 weeks and just confiming pregnancy and we saw twins. I was upset because my older son was only 10 months and I didnt know how I would handle 3 under 2 years old but I got over it after a week and was thrilled to have 3 babies.

Then we went in a week later and they told us we lost one and that it was common in early pregnancy and thats why they usually wait til 10 weeks to give ultrasounds. Im sorry for your loss and completly understand.
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December 14th, 2012, 02:59 PM
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So sorry thinking of u and sending prayers your way!
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December 15th, 2012, 03:19 PM
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I am so sorry sweetie.... sending you lots of love and hugs.
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December 15th, 2012, 10:26 PM
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I cannot imagine the heartbreak and emotions you are going through I hope you can find peace in time. I will keep you in my thoughts
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